This guy I had been talking with two years ago!..haha and were like the best of friends now...well i guess i broke his heart two years ago when i said i didn't want to hang out with him until he got his life straigtened out and really it worked out for the best cause he changed his life around (not for me but for himself) but it wasn't cause i didn't like him ..it was so hard for me to end the relationship for whatever it was ...we were more than friends but was never sure what he thought we were i guess we weren't but obvious we both cared for each other..but i was afraid to get hurt and told him that i couldn't hang out with him..we went six months without seeing each other ..talking on the phone at different times..i had no idea how much i hurt him..well now two years later..even though a year ago..we were still kinda seeing each other not dating but ya ..made out a couple times....well now he's getting married in a month and he talks to me on the phone..well tonight he asked if he
2007-07-23 20:42:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he could think back on the past with me ..and i was kinda like um..ok....cause it can be awkward cause there is still a connection even though i push it down and have been with other people since him..its just there will always be that there i think for both of us..but its me realizing it for the first time since he told me..how much i hurt him.. i guess i never realized how much he cared about me or how much he liked me at the time..so now its strange hearing him talk to me like he cares..yet he's getting married its like our final goodbyes our last chance to get anything out..anything you would say if you were in a position like this..gosh sometimes i hate saying goodbye..im gonna miss him as my best friend :( i really do love him
2007-07-23 20:45:22 · update #1
well i'll try to add more..ya he really said more stuff than i have ever heard him say tonight..he's not all the best at being honest which i think is why i got scared in the first place cause i didn't want to get hurt...but tonight he asked me if he could think back on everything..and he told me how much he liked me when he first met me and how much he had a crush on me even when he wasn't around me..i didn't see him for like two three months and he was still thinking about me..i was like wow..but he brought up good times for us both..being together kinda intimate times...and said he hopes he has that in the future (with his wife ) and i said you will (i'm positve with him cause i'm happy for him its just weird to think about that if i didn't hurt him and reject him we most likely 99% of me feels we would have been together) but ya he was saying how he enjoyed laughing and wrestling with me and he brought up our little secrets no one else knows about ..part of me feels bad talking
2007-07-23 20:53:29 · update #2
to him about it..(but he brought it up) but its like he's getting married and he needs to stop talking about us..i used to call him out on it whne he was just dating( before he got engaged) but now its kinda interesting to hear about how he felt..but nerve racking too..but i'm so glad i had him as a friend i really couldn't replace him in my life..but will be missed but part of me feels like i can't express that as much as i want to..its hard for me to be honest with him..(not really) but just cause i feel cheezy when i do that to him..but he probably would understand ..cause i think we feel mutually..but i have to say i like seeing his side that is deeper than he shows everyone else..its a nice feeling i'm making myself sad just talking about it..
2007-07-23 20:56:07 · update #3
dont do anything silly dont let him make you be his last fling before he gets married. as for anything you need to get off your chest TELL him. theres nothing worse than WHAT IF??? if you were that close he will still be in your life dont worry. xx
2007-07-23 20:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you wish him happiness. Tell him that you are sorry that you had to do what you did years ago, but that you felt that he needed to know that his life was headed in the wrong direction. Tell him that you felt that if you did not remove yourself from the situation, you would have suffered the consequences of his actions.
2007-07-24 03:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make friends with him and his wife then u can visit him still
2007-07-24 03:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by kloenozwot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go.
2007-07-24 03:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him because he will marry.
2007-07-24 03:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sinatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
den just ignore it just be frens can do
2007-07-24 03:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. it s that simple.
2007-07-24 03:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋