I know this women that is prego.. she is not married but says she is muslim, should she have the kids what does Islam say about this.. the father wants to marry but she still wondering the mental galaxies of her mind. Should she keep the kids, if she does I only found something about Zakat to be given for this error like bloodmoney if she aborts its in the first 120 days according to Islam the fetus doesn't have a soul until after that time, but its quite forbidden unless huge reason is produced.
Can she keep the children and still consider herself in guidance or has she transgressed already by having sex before marriage and broke a limit of the lord? What is her best out?
2007-07-23 20:36:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No there is charity given as the prophet ordered pbuh when abortion was admitted to have been done.. its haram yes but it was done and there was blood money given not to say that the child is worth money but one good deed is better than another bad... the prophet ordered blood money for those who where found with still born or aborted children.
2007-07-23 20:51:44 · update #1
You know I was going to put Muslims only but the word Islam should have pointed it out clearly! HAHAHA unreal freeks come out.... isn't that a song.. its a valid question you will see my answer later...There is an answer for this in Fatwa... look in Riyad Al Salaheen
2007-07-23 20:53:02 · update #2
A muslimah can has children without marrired if she is a widow or maybe she was forced by someone for having sex without her own intention.She was dishonoured by the cruel man.Or she can be tempted by satan and she made a sexual relation without married and then she was pregnant .I think there is any possibility one of those I have stated above.But whatever its reason,she should raise her children as a single parent because murdering is not allowed by Allah the only one God.Abortion is not allowed too..If she had a sexual relationship without married it is called jinah or adultery or whoring.She should be punished by throwing stone for 100 times.But I think it is better if she ask for Allah's forgiveness and she shpould swear in her heart that she do not try it again..The biological father of her children has also great sin and he should be punished the same punishment..She could not let her children die by themselves.She should keep them alive and grow healthy and have the right education.All of her children are sinless like a white paper ,only their parents have great sins.All babies are born sinless the parents and its environment make them muslims/muslimah,christians, jews or atheists.She can be considered as a good muslimah if she is now aware of her responsibility as a good muslimah. single parent. although in the past she had a great sin.by having sex without married..Allah is merciful. and forgiveful.
2007-07-23 21:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath! I will start by saying that Allah is Oft Forgiving, Most Merciful. It's definitely not the best of practiced (and yes a sin) to have sex before marriage. Though pregnancy and the resulting birth are from Allah (God)... and abortion is forbidden except under extreme circumstances! She should keep the baby, whether she marries the father or not... though I would say that they should get married (as long as they feel they can be good to one another in marriage.) And as a note... there is no amount of Zakat you can pay for the life of a child. It has no basis in the teachings of Islam. Allah (God) knows best! May Allah bless the baby and it's parents with good health, and guide them all upon the straight path!
2007-07-23 20:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Red Dragon 2007 {Free Palestine} 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She should keep the baby. The mistake that she commited was hers not of the child. She should do her best to raise the child as a good muslim to avoid the same mistake that she did. As for her transgression, she should keep in mind that Allah is the MOST MERCIFUL. She should ask for forgiveness sincerely and we are sure Allah will forgive her. This is sometimes what muslims forget, that Allah is Loving, the Most Compassionate and that He loves us more than a mother loves her child.
She should not feel guilty all her life, remorse yes but to live a life of misery for one mistake is trully unfair. If she does feel guilty, I recommend that she volunteer in any charity organization that helps the poor, the old and the sick.
Life is not shape by the wrongs we did but by the actions we do to correct those mistakes.
Don't forget this verse. The first verse of the first chapter of the Qur'an:
"In the Name of Allah, the MOST MERCIFUL, the MOST COMPASSIONATE." Holy Qur'an 1:1
2007-07-23 21:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by space lover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage and divorce when the woman pregnant is not valid until the birth of the baby.
And Abortion is not allowed in Islam.
So If she fears Allah, she should keep the baby, and ask forgiveness to Allah
Allah will forgive everyone who ask forgiveness sincerely
And Allah knows whose sincere and whose fake
2007-07-23 20:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by marhama 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
There are many Hadiths confirming that the child should not be aborted. As for those that did this act of sin: 100 lashes.
2016-04-01 10:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't abort the baby anyway, abortion is a great sin.. Murder. She must marry the father if she want to fix this matter.
2007-07-23 20:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lawrence of Arabia 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well I really don't know the specifics but I would just say 2 wrongs don't make a right.
2007-07-23 20:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Abdullah 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Any sexual activities before marriage is prohibited in Islam. Hope you get a detailed answer.
2007-07-23 20:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ismail Eliat 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
she made a mistake so she should fix it by asking allah for forgivness and marry the man!
2007-07-23 20:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could marry the man, put the child up for adoption or have her parents raise him or her.
2007-07-23 20:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋