I am Christian and I am very much into following what the Lord say's is right. Through out my life girls have considered me a pretty attractive man, and I’ve never had problems getting them, but since High School I have always had problems keeping them because they wanted to have sex, and I believe sex should wait until marriage, but will most girls leave if I won't have sex until marriage?
2007-07-23 18:47:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No, not Most. ALL.
2007-07-23 18:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
whatever convictions you have why should you let the first person you like or date cause you to lower your standards? It's seen as wrong for a girl to lower her standards to have sex with a guy before marriage out of "love" and then doesn't always end in marriage so why not just trust that you will find someone who will comply with your wishes. I wouldn't expect someone who isn't Christian to want to wait though bc/ they don't have the same set of standards as you do. I have been to 2 weddings where both couples have waited until marriage - despite what you think it's not uncommon practice - just not well advertised.
2007-07-24 01:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by christie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most girls will leave if you won't have sex until marriage. To most people, sex is a preliminary part of the relationship. If you ask me, if you're not having sex, you're pretty much just friends. But I'm sure there are women out there who share your views, and those good christian women shouldn't have a problem waiting until marriage if that's what they believe.
2007-07-24 01:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah I am sure there's some Christian girls out there who feel the same way you do about the whole sex/marriage thing.Not that I recommend waiting until marriage but if that's what you want to do and you feel that strongly about it....well...then wait. Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with.
2007-07-24 01:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends, lots of Christian girls and even non-Christian girls who plan to save themselves for marriage won't walk away, and lots of girls will. But you have to think, if they're willing to leave you just because you won't sleep with them, do they want you or sex? And if they leave for again said reasons, did they really love you in the first place?
2007-07-24 01:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Aurum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then marry a tortoise and your problems are over, they live to 150 anyway so they dont mind waiting for sex. As for the intelligent horny girls, us pastafarians and atheists can take care of them for you!!!
2007-07-24 01:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one you are meant for will respect your wish to wait. You don't need the stress to be pressured into breaking the Lord's wishes. Besides, think about it this way, if a girl can not respect your wishes abotu waiting, how much more could she disresspect you and the Lord?
2007-07-24 01:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by mrsmalone411 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Where are you meeting these girls? You won't meet your kind of girl in bars.
You say you are Christian. Aren't there any available girls at your church?
.
2007-07-24 01:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Wise@ss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter if most girls leave?
Just find one that agrees with you.
Or do you think that the whole of humankind should believe as you?
2007-07-24 01:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by valcus43 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the whole sex before marriage thing is an antiquated scare tactic, sex away son!
2007-07-24 01:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Find a girl who also has the same beliefs.
2007-07-24 01:55:15 · answer #11 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋