You find out he is still a virgin and you have had previous relationships. How would you address this person, or would you just walk away? Would it attrack you or turn you off and why..
2007-07-23 18:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by Mona Lisa 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
you need to let him know the truth! and not to pressure him into anything. Remember, truth be tol you can pressure anyone into sex. It's not that he doesn't want it, he wants to respect the Lord and wait till marriage. You should help him to NOT have sex before marriage, and if you can commit yourself to that, to not tempting him, then everything should be ok.
2007-07-23 18:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by mrsmalone411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I'm pretty mongamous, but on a fantasy scale I will play along.
I always thought the idea of a nice Don Juan seducing me to be ideal. However, the fantasy of getting some 18 year old (for legal purposes) that's a shy quiet virgin and needs to be taught is very appealing. You know, have a week with him and then set him loose on the world, and then enters my Don Juan to seduce me again.
However, I think you were asking because you are really in this perdicament. Look, if you think there is going to be a relationship, you need to tell him if it is of Religious importance to you and him. Tell him you have had previous expereince but that you do not want to now.
Personally, it would not bother me at all if when I was young my man had been a virgin.
2007-07-24 01:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by fifimsp3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my husband he was a virgin I had, had several sexual relationships (I had 2 children at the time).. We talked about it he didn't have a problem with it I didn't have a problem with it we had sex he was no longer a virgin.. We got married and 10.10 years later we are still together and now have 3 children..
I wasn't any more or less attracted to him because he was a virgin, he wasn't any more or less attracted to me because I wasn't..
Being a virgin or not isn't a problem if you truly love someone. If it is a problem it's not true love and the relationship shouldn't be pursued even without the virgin/non virgin problem.
2007-07-24 01:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies normally do not talk with virgins except for marriage, so no.
2007-07-24 01:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the age hunny!
2007-07-24 01:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Edhelosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my now . ex. wife with that mormon . ? fct. my opion ? he.s out to make his mark hon sorry. but it.s fact. in my opion?
2007-07-24 02:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋