iam mexican and philipino and it seems like theres always bad talk anyways how do i or u deal with it
2007-07-23 18:40:01 · 5 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You deal with like any other person in your shoes would deal with it you ignore it. People are going to talk about you no matter what color, race or gender you are. We all feel that we are not welcome in today's society and I think for someone to talk about you and not getting to know you are people that are just jealous and they can be jealous for any reason but I bet you that they can tell you why they are talking about you and what they are talking about you for. Hold your head up high and walk with confidence. You are important to them if they have to talk about you and do not want to know that person behind the color. I bet that the person you are is a really nice, kind and giving person.
2007-07-23 18:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had to deal with it, but I just decided I wouldn't let it be all that important to me. Stupid, prejudiced people need to be scraped off..just like bubblegum on your shoe.
2007-07-24 02:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
after a while you learn to tune out and ignore them that's what I've done and it works for me most of the time
2007-07-24 01:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by rk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my brother that is two yr older than I, he dont like black girls, well we are all black, it was hard growing up with him, he was really extra mean to me cause I was black, not to say we liked one another personilities but being black to him made him act worse, he used to call me ugly and black skinned, and nappy hair (lol like he didnt have it), but he only liked the looks of non black females. how i dealt with it was knowing it was his sad little opinion and I was beautiful, now he has mixed daughters and most part they are known as black girls, and now he has to teach them they are beautiful black women, good luck on that one, but my nieces are learning in other ways to like their self and races, so like your self and your race and dont listend to the bad tgalk, I didnt and i love the black me.
2007-07-24 02:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tracy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of my boys is light skinned and he seems to be favored more. i don't think people realize they are doing it but I notice.
2007-07-24 02:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by MrsCAPTAIN !!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋