Does age really matter!??? need some Love help!?

Question

Ok heres the story, Theres this girl who I met a while back ago, and I must say I fell for her, I tried everything, I asked her out SO many times, I went all out to get her to notice me and finally we talked and she sed that she couldnt go out with me because I was younger than her! and that I didnt share the same values as her! But I personally think age shouldnt matter! but every one tells me to "just let her go". everyone tells me to just leave her, and that theres plenty of more fish in the Sea, BUT what can I say, shes a Pearl in this sea of chole, and I guess what I'm asking is, what can I do in this situation? should I let her go like everyone says!? or should I follow my heart and keep on trying!? I just dont know anymore! I

Answer 1

Dear Vman,
Ok, let me get this straight: she tells you she doesn't want to go out with you because you are too young? She's basically saying she's better than you and your still chasing after her? Obviously she doesn't deserve a guy like you, she should be lucky if you even want to go out with her! If she thinks she's too good for you, then you know YOUR too good for her and deserve much better than her. Trust me on this honey, drop her like last month's shoes! Your friends are right when they tell you to move on, there's another girl out there who respects you and will go out of her way just to get you to talk to her. All you have to do is find her.Wait--no, let her find YOU! :)
good luck,
misshollywood.

Answer 2

I would say, follow your heart. And this is about you, really. Don't let other people influence you and tell you what to do (ignore the fact that I'm doing the same thing). If your hear tells you to keep trying, then do that.
And no, age doesn't really matter. Unless, there is a 40 year difference between you two, but then again, where there is love, age is not an obstacle.
Also, you don't have to share the same interests and values in order to have a good relationship. If you think different from what she thinks, then that's what makes a relationship interesting. If you both thought the same way all the time, your relationship would be quite boring.
Good luck..

Answer 3

Well I really think you should let her go too. If you tried so hard to maker her notice you and at the end she told you that, then she just don't have the interest. Cause I know that If a girl is really interested in some guy she wouldn't mind about his age. So I just think she's not interested and she just said that to not say "I don't like you". So let her go and just find another pearl in the sea lol.

Answer 4

Awww, your so romantic, and your in love, LOve can hurt, and love is a roller coaster, it's full of all these emotions, and all these fears.. :) That girl must be blind to not know what she is missing, so many girls wish they were in her position. I know You love her so, much, but the key here is she dosen't feel the same sadly, :( you have two options either keep trying and hope she gives you a chance, but you cannot wait for her forever. The opther choice is to Let her go, meet other girls, there are probably alot of girls who like you for who you really are, and don't care about age.. Age should not matter if you really love a person. "We all make our choices" this is one you must take, and hope it is for the better, and later wont regret. You can't want something you never really had. If she is trully for you, she will tag along, but focus on the fututre there is a better tomorrow, and when you least expect it, there will come along the girl who dosen't care about age, nothing will matter except you, and just you. I wish you luck in whatever choice you decide to take. :}Ciao*

Answer 5

when she says that because of the age difference, your view on different values will be different, then it's probably better to let go now and not let yourself fall deeper. She's obviously looking for a person her age or older. Unless you have some way to prove to her that you are at the same level on all the views in life, then you will have a better chance.

Answer 6

If she really liked you she would like you for who you are age included. Some girls want older guys. That is just the way the boat floats.

I've always dated older guys. My husband is 50 and I am 31. We will be married 5 years this Aug. So as they said age does not matter.

Answer 7

Leave her alone. She's just not into you.
Don't try to force a situation, just because 'you' want it.
It will not work if you don't share the same feelings. Perhaps you will meet this same "pearl" later, when you are older and age will not matter. I agree, move on

Answer 8

I think age should not really matter in a relationship...some people may be old but arent really mature in the truest sense...what really matters is that you have things in common and you share the same outlook in life...because these things come into play in a relationship...it will be the basis of your being together...you can show her that you may be young but if you can handle yourself maturely then age should not be a problem....

Answer 9

She already told you why she is not interested in you. To many age does not matter. There are May- December relationships more than ever out there. It just has to be a mutual fit.Yes let her go. In time you will meet someone else...

Answer 10

If you share the same interest and values, then you probably stands a better chance of convincing her but if not, then sorry. It will be better to forget about her.
For a woman, she do need to consider the age factor as she will age faster than you especially after childbirth.