This weekend went out to the bar with some friends
One of my friends saw some guys she knows from our hometown but I've never met them.
From the get go when I met "Jon" I was attracted to him right away. We got along great. My other friend and his friend hit it off to. Me and my friend went to their hotel and each spent the night with our men. I don't do that on a regular basis and he knew that.
The next morning he was super sweet and cuddly. I thought "oh when's he going to give the act up and drop me off at home?" It never ended. He held my hand and we all went for breakfast and he dropped me off at home. We exchanged numbers and he told me that I should visit him sometime (he lives in a city about 2 1/2 hrs away)
We haven't talked on the phone yet but he insisted that I be the one to call him sometime.
So it's not like he's not going to disappear anytime soon.
The problem is that I don't know what he wants. Could he want a long distance relationship?
2007-07-23 18:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We talked lots during this time and he mentions that he doesn't want to party so much any more..is it possible that he wants to settle down and looking for a potential long term gf?
I'm not trying to brag, but I'm the type of girl that a guy could bring home to Mom. Perhaps he sees that in me?
2007-07-23 18:04:06 · update #1
well maybe before you get to that, perhaps get to know each other more? call him and make conversations. if you and he are both equally interested in each other then eventually you should know if he keeps calling you or wanting to see you...and eventually he himself might ask you that question himself, whether or not you both want to be in a long-distance relationship. all i know is that to be able to do long-distance relationship is that you must have strong feelings for each other, most likely love, and TRUST. without these two factors, i dont think anybody can do long-distance relationships.
2007-07-23 18:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by blueberrymuffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend and i live 3 1/2 hours apart and we have been dating for over a year and we are completely in love. if you are willing to give it a chance go for it. but i am warning you it will be tuff cause you wouldn't get to see him but if you really love him the time spent together will be great and the time apart will make it even better and more worth while. my botfriend and i talk alot and we are always open and we see each other every month but it gets hard but when i am with him i know he is the one that i want to marry. and he feels the same and we both love each other and we never want to be apart.
i say call him and don't let something good float away
2007-07-24 01:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by dex05luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry this is not a "long distance" relationship --- you can easily see each other every weekend --- if you care for someone 2 1/2 hours is NOT far ---- call him see how it goes and rather than make plans just see how your relationship progresses week to week --- best wishes
2007-07-24 01:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a nice single guy who was looking for a hookup
at least he got u breakfast
2007-07-24 01:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a good person.you should give him a chance. and yes long distance relationships do work and i know from experience. good luck =)
2007-07-24 01:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it... there is no harm in dating someone who seems to be just perfect... but before you just go for it, build a more solid relationship...
2007-07-24 01:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋