Why do the attractive girls always go through so much bullshit?

Question

I'm not trying to brag, but i know that i am a fairly attractive woman. I have know problem getting a second stare from most guys, but my question is this, you would think that most attractive girls would find fullfilling, challenge free relationships, but the truth is that it is much harder and i think guys purposely send through an emotional whirlwind. Do guy purposely put the more attractive girls through hell because they think they deserve it? What is the real deal on this can someone explain it to me?

I want details, because i am really frustrated. If i did not grab the attention of men or did not have a pretty face would i be going through this. I get tired of people asking me if i have a man based on what i look like and surprised when i tell them i dont. It makes me feel like a freak show because they begin to think something is wrong with me because i DONT have a man. I am not a golddigger, i work hard for everythign that i own, i have never been married, i dont have a house full of kids, went to college, have a bubbly personality to go along with the pretty face...and so on.

I am fullfigured and am told that i have a very pretty face, could that fact that i am full figured be the problem?

Answer 1

They go through that crap because there are some real jerks out there willing to take advantage of attractive women. While the less attractive women, but more on the inside do not usually have to deal with this drama.

Answer 2

YES! i agree! & I'm like that and I don't mean to sound that way either, but tis true. I think it's because (at least the ones I've known for the most part) are guys who are so focussed on appearance/beauty, and I don't know why I draw that type either, i don't wear trendy stuff or carry myself a certain way. I walk & act normal, dress conservative and the way I like, still. I will have to just ask the next man that shows interest in me why he was attracted to me in the first place. good question heh!
good answer Jason, makes sense

Answer 3

Wow finally a question i think i have experience in answering. I came from a rich town with very rich, good looking girls. Guys sometimes think attractive girls are stuck up who think they are better than everybody else. Guys also sometimes go out on personal vendettas because of some bad experiences in the past. Stereotypes play in a bunch...shes good looking, probably rich, probably high maintenance, etc. Just be yourself (hopefully nice) and find somebody who appreciates it.

Answer 4

Well, since "attractive" girls get to date almost anyone that she wants to (who is going to turn down a date with an attractive girl?), then I have to say that you are the one picking the bad boys to date, not the other way around.

You are doing this to yourself, by subconsciously choosing to go out with bad guys, and deliberately passing by the nice guys as too bland and boring.

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"I get tired of people asking me if i have a man based on what i look like and surprised when i tell them i dont. It makes me feel like a freak show because they begin to think something is wrong with me because i DONT have a man."

Sounds like you are too worried about what strangers and acquaintances think of you. Seems like you have a lot of insecurities. Other people do not tell you who you are; you decide that for yourself by what you choose to do. You should have realized that by now. I'm assuming that you are an adult, and that you grew out of popularity contests by the time that you finished high school.

If you are tired of waiting for people to come to you, then you could always go up to guys that you like and introduce yourself, and save yourself all of that time. Men tend to be intimidated by attractive girls, because they assume that you could always do better than them if you wanted to, so they tend to avoid asking you out for fear of being rudely rejected.