2007-07-23 17:39:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep. You got that right cowboy.
But seriously its like..... my actions are all over the place. My mind is scattered in the most disorganized way and nothing I do is like me or makes sense. And I guess its mostly because I lose that "focus." That.... purpose. You know?? I can get over what has been done to me. I can come to terms with a choice that has been made. I'm grown up enough to not question because I realize there is no use in doing so. People do what they want to do regardless. And me asking "why" or pouting will do nothing to change that. So that's not the hard part that makes it "hard" to get back in the saddle. It's the focus. I invest sooooooooo much of myself in someone, that when its over....... I'm left there standing looking around with my hands up as if to say.... "Now what do I do??" I can't stand the silence. I can't stand the quiet. I can't stand the emptiness that surrounds that feeling. It's...... it's the most uneasy feeling I know. So I "scurry"..... for lack of a better word. And I try to do this to busy myself which runs into this that runs into that and so on and so on until I'm totally scattered and life is just one big jumble. I've been in a jumble for months and months and months now. And I'm sooooooo searching for even a hint of a new saddle being manufactured to fit me. NO HORSE..... just the saddle thank you.
2007-07-23 17:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Is it hard for you to get back in the saddle again after a relationship breaks up?
Depends on who was horsing around.
For those that have been around the track a couple of times, it might be easier, but for those at their first time at gate…..
Perhaps changing jockeys in mid stride is a bit daunting. There again the key is taking the reigns to your life.
Every horse has a handicap. Some are more likely to just want to hang in the pasture. Others, well they are the ones out to stud.
But if you are careful and make sure your std or filly is well broken, you should win place or show nicely…… and if you are really lucky you can win the “trifecta” at the running of the Roses!
2007-07-24 02:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to break up with my man in an hour when I see him. So I think I'd just answer you. I have already felt very painful in the last 2 days, but that's ok to move on, going out , joining in lots of activities I like, (dramas, cinemas, bars...) and meeting new people. I'm trying to think of those beautiful things out there and forget what I should forget.
This is just about trying, I guess. And no looking back, so if you ever look back on those lovely memories, you won't be able to get comfortable on you 'saddle' and feeling soooo insecure is the result.
2007-07-24 01:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by Schatzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not that hard to get back in the saddle, especially if you came from a relationship where you were put down and everything else. You need to be happy in whatever relationship that you are in and also to be happy with yourself.
2007-07-24 00:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by ambercrombie97@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was my mane squeeze, I find that getting back in the saddle can be a real challenge. I may feel in the mood to say nay to new relationships.
2007-07-24 00:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Purple 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't know. been in this one so long my saddle sores got saddle sores.
I believe it also depends on the length of time involved, etc,.
2007-07-24 00:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by angels_angelsarehere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but after that first kiss and make out session...you are jumping faster in that saddle than you really want to or really should...take your time...and things will be better in the end............
2007-07-24 00:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by lodger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very difficult to start dating again... especially when you feel you gave so much to your last relationship and came up empty at the end. For me, it will be difficult to trust again...but I don't know what your issues were.
2007-07-24 00:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by van 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually just horse around for awhile. Not that I am a stud or anything. Winny or lose I have to get back on eventually
2007-07-24 00:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Lefty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love answering my own question. This is the only good thing about being suspended. One has to get back on and rein in his enthusiasm.
2007-07-24 02:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋