i went out with my girlfriend for about 6 months and we broke up and she went out with another guy and she lost her virginity with him and then later they broke up and she asked me to go back with her but i dont know if i should still be with her and i dont know wat to do i really need help to think wat to do???
2007-07-23 17:23:15 · 34 answers · asked by artchaqui 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now that you knows she's down to phuk. Hit it.
Then quit it.
2007-07-23 17:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by rollaracergts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude .. that's so messed up on her part .
It seems like she probably had alot of lust for this guy probably while you two were together previously .. then went out with him .. lost her virginity to him .. then after all the lust and preciousness was gone, they ended it and she goes back to you ..
it seems like she's real immature .. wait until she grows up, then you can try ..
but for right now .. I say you just let her go .. it's not good to be in a relationship with her right now ..
some things will never change .. remember that .
take care and good luck !
2007-07-23 17:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by theGREATEST. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ruff question! Can you trust her and can you get past the fact that she did this? If you can't get past the fact she did this even if she never does it with anyone else again besides you it will always be on your mind. It's hard to have a relationship with some one that you have bad thoughts of and it won't be right for either of you. On the other hand if you can get past this. Then I suggest you show her how much you care for her and the two of you sit down and discuss this and see where her thoughts are and if you two can resolve any problems you may have and move on from there slowly with a fresh start.
2007-07-23 17:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by tickets to farvorite team 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two were not together when she lost her virginity then thats not cheating, you just were not the first, so you feel bad and your looking for an excuse do you care about her or not? if you do then put the past behind you, if you don't then move on but she did not cheat on you if you broke up with her before she had sex........
2007-07-31 16:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kenneth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GO BACK!!!!! "once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater." It is great if u dont hold a grudge against her, but she lost her virginity, and u a lieable to find someone betta' than a slutty As* cheater ((once again, for people who read mii so-called advice, i apologize for the language)). Y DO U THINK SHE LEFT HIM AFTER HER SEXING HIM UP?!
2007-07-31 15:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Meh. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope no way in hell because she cheated lost her virginity to and now shes hurt and she wants some one to comfort her and she atomaticly thinks ur gonna take her back shell do it again she just dosnt want to fell really dumb 4 giving it to that guy and they broke up she proble fells used to and she never felt that way with u so i say u dont take her back she has to learn that it wasnt right or she proble just do the whole thing over again
2007-07-23 17:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see... You and this girl were not seeing each other during the time she had relations with someone else. Explain just how that is cheating?
Do what you want, but I don't think you have any idea what is going on in this case.
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2007-07-31 15:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants 2 use u becuz she has no one else eround .or maby she cant forget u an feels guilty an rembers good times she had with u? it can go eny path just have 2 observ behavoirs like if she asks u 4 like favors shes useing u if she talk ebout the good times she misses u ..lool i never had a relationship soo this is wat am comeing with .
2007-07-23 17:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant hold a person's past behind her at least not her sexual past but if she cheated on u i would say no bc she is liable to do it again. If she didnt then question yourself why does it really matter? if u love her then her past shouldnt be a problem to u. what is ur heart telling u? i can give u advice all day but in the end it must ur heart that tells u where u need to go.
2007-07-23 17:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Had the same problem, except lets try 2 1/2 years, she left me, went out w/ this guy 3 months..gave it up, Drop her, there's more fish in the sea...and they'll treat you better too...
2007-07-31 16:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart in deciding whether to go back to her. She got your licence to loose her virginity when you guys broke up. She has cheated herself and you by loosing her viginity. What she did after you broke with her is none of your stupid business.
2007-07-31 16:14:36 · answer #11 · answered by Brave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋