am I too needy and scare men off?

Question

been single all my life,
usually I dont flirt with men unless they look hot,
but i dont ever get a call back from them,
or even a "thank you" message after I give them an act-of-kindness(bday,good luck) card!!
am I too needy,should i play more hard-to-get or are they just jerks?

Answer 1

Women are the absolute worst judges of what a real man is. You go with your instincts and look what happens. You pick some cute player and get played. WHat did you expect from a player? DUHHHHHH!!!! Advice for women is soooo easy because men are soooooo simple. We have 3 basic facinations, food, sex, and our game (football, Hockey, D&D, Video games, etc.) As long as we get all 3 we're happy. Players game is women, that's why they're players. You need to go visit your local comic book store, or your local video game store and check out the Nerds. Find one who is cute and make him yours if you want a relationship. (If you just wanna be a HO then go to the dance clubs and look for players) When you're out without him you won't have to worry about where he is, hell be in his basement playing D&D and not chasing skirt. On top of that he'll probably worship you just because you're a female that actually wants to talk to him. So if you want a loveslave who will cherish you like you've always wanted get a NERD. If you wanna get played, get a sissy boy player. Oh, Nerds usually have good jobs too.

Answer 2

Save Me I haven't any idea of why you are scaring guys off. You explained a little but there obviously must be more to this story. I somehow doubt that all these guys could be jerks so perhaps it's time to take a look inside yourself and see if maybe it is an image or something you have/haven't done that is so scary to these males. Best of luck and self reflection just may make you feel better about yourself also.

Answer 3

Yes, men can be scared off too, by a seemingly needy female, that's why you'll see them flock to an independent, beautiful woman who knows what she wants and doesn't need all the attention to feel good about herself, she is just being her!

Answer 4

You said that you usually flirt with men 'because they look hot'. Maybe if you dealt with guys with more substance (heart, compassion, thoughtfulness) than just looks alone, you would probably have better luck.

Answer 5

welll iii think u have the equipment just not the manual
cause im sure your a bright intelligent young women but you must play hard to get but not to overpwering iii mean if you say ii love you on the first date its like taking out a wedding cake on the first date and thats what drives guys away

Answer 6

You seem to needy. go into reverse a sprint. permit the guy do the 1st pass. And via all ability do no longer pass on seems on my own. there are a number of fellows obtainable that are no longer that warm, yet they are superb men, supply it slow to super men, no longer purely warm men.

Answer 7

Sounds like if you play hard to get you might not get got! Maybe you should widen your parameters when it comes to men. Maybe you are being picky and should not be so stuck on just hot guys!

Answer 8

Stop going for the 'hot guys' they're a dime a dozen and find a moderately shy one. I am a moderately shy guy and appreciate women completely.

Answer 9

Since no one knows you on here, I would go with your gut impression. If you can't tell of that, I would ask your closest friends if you come off that way. If that doesn't work ask the guys straight up, we usually perfer if girls are straight up with us.

Answer 10

guys are pretty simple creature actually. just flirt with them a little and most will be all over you unless you are REALLY ugly, which i doubt.