I hate myself sometimes. There is this guy I like, and he just told me he likes me and everything. And I confessed too. But I told him that I wanted to wait and see if feelings will change or anything. But i'm still living in that stupid fairytale I built up where he confesses his love with so much beauty. All he said was that I nice,beatifull,funny and he loved to be with me and such. But....I don't know i'm still in that part where i've always dreamed of a guy takeing my breathe away as he said his feelings and such. I can't tell if he's holding back or not. But am I wrong for wanting fantasy to become a reality? Am I just a stupid girl for thinking like this. It's just that I don't wan to be in relationship when I feel like it's not going to be real because I don't want to hurt him. And he deserves better than me anyways.
2007-07-23 15:13:38 · 5 answers · asked by Faithfull_music 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not stupid for your dreams... the stupid part comes in when he is the wrong guy and you try to make him fit into your dream.... wait for the dream guy.. he is there and you are not stupid.. we need more people like you with dreams but know that you cannot change people.. so wait for the right guy...
2007-07-23 15:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by flame57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing you haven't been dating or seeing each other very long, if you are still waiting to see if things change. The problem is that someone sweeping you off of your feet at first sight is very uncomfortable for most people. If he were to ride in on horseback and take you away, only to find out in a year or two that you both have very different opinions on morals, or children, or religion, what would happen? Fantasy is a creative way for us to express our imaginations. It is not necessarily wrong to want fantasy to become reality, but true and passionate love does not happen over night. You may very well wake up one day next to a guy after 20 years and realize he takes your breath away, but love like that takes a long time to cultivate.
2007-07-23 22:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by deepkick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bring yourself don like that. i've been waiting for that to happen to me for *quite* a while now, haha. you seem great, and if this is what you have been waiting for, then hold onto it. if things dont work out in the end, one of you is going to get hurt, rite? i rarely say this, but just follow your heart and see what happens.
2007-07-23 22:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by LeahBoBea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe share your fantasy with him --- i think there are a lot of people who have a gentle fantasy such as you and are afraid to share it for fear of rejection ---- you may find that he may join you in your fantasy world --- and never think he deserves better than you --- think instead how lucky he is that you care for him ---- best wishes
2007-07-23 22:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... In 12 years, when that may happen... You let me know. hahahahahahaha... Seriously, I'm not sure what you're waiting for. Just go for it... You sound young- life's all about risks. Live it now!
2007-07-23 22:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by mike! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋