What turns you off in the the beginings of a relationship, like what ruins it for you? On the other hand, what turns you on the most/ or makes you want to be with a woman in a new relationship?
2007-07-23 15:03:55 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet Honey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
expectations of what she wants. specifically marriage. as any player will tell you...float the idea of marriage and the woman/girl is easier to get. do you business, and move on. all guys get labeled as dogs, when really it was the woman/girl showing her desperation for a commitment that led to her getting plucked.
2007-07-23 15:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by jonny y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn offs include excessive clinginess (it doesn't take much to be excessive, either), disclosure of past sexual experiences, or talking about your ex too much, stink is a pretty big turn off, acting cranky or antisocial around a guy's friends is also not only a turn off for the guy, but his friends as well. Talking about marriage or other commitments too soon is also something that will make a guy run for the hills, and if it doesn't, you should be scared, because it means there's something wrong with him.
As for turn ons, common interests are great, probably more of a turn on earlier on, a certain level of independence is really nice, intelligence works wonders for me, but a lot of guys would prefer more of a lack in that department.
Unfortunately, all guys are different in what they like. For the most part, I just tried to generalize as much as I could, but there are plenty of exceptions to that.
2007-07-23 22:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jim C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One huge turn off at the beginning is nagging. If you've only been dating a week and she starts bitching and moaning about something, you can be pretty sure that will continue to get worse.
Also, don't try to change a guy. Ever, but especially early on. It's not going to work, and if he still feels he can get out easily he'll just bail.
2007-07-23 22:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate woman that send mixed signals. If you like a guy; don't play hard to get; let him know.
Turn on: asked questions and remains interested in me, she has to be friendly, smiles a lot, and physical stay fit.
Turn off: arrogance, ignorance, self-centered, "i am better-than-you-attitude" and so on
2007-07-23 22:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by CuriosityKills 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off? Girls who talk to much and have attitudes. Also girls who are very flirty with other guys.
Turn on? Everything else.
2007-07-23 22:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Russell C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so we girls cannot answer?
well, when guys act really immature that is when it is a turn off.
i dont lke immature guys..
they get on my nerves
2007-07-23 22:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋