yourself for a past incident, offense or indescretion?
2007-07-23 14:48:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It is far easier to forgive someone who you are not close to. The closer you are the more it hurts. I doubt I would have invested feelings and expectations of my neighbor like I would myself or someone I love
2007-07-23 15:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can't hold onto is a grudge. They're TOO darn heavy to carry around for very long.
Raji the Green Witch
2007-07-24 02:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Raji the Green Witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to your loss. you do no longer could desire to "recover from it" or get counseling. What you're dealing with is conventional grief. it particularly is a shame that your husband's kin won't be able to be wisdom and supportive for you. it particularly is egocentric. you may attempt to forgive them. retaining a grudge merely provides on your burden, and you are able to desire to be at peace as much as conceivable. interior the destiny, pass to kin events for the sake of your husband and new child - in case you sense as much because it. no could desire to show regret in case you do no longer sense as much because it. do no longer permit their comments difficulty you. I even have experienced this myself with egocentric in-rules. no count number how no longer undemanding you attempt to thrill them, they only would possibly no longer have faith the flaws which you're feeling. shield your self so as which you'll be an entire, chuffed man or woman back. Enlist the help of your husband in this - he desires to be the only to tell his mom and sister to admire your desires and go into reverse. you opt for love at a time like this, no longer petty comments. Bless you and comprehend that factor will ease a number of your soreness.
2016-10-09 07:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by gilboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never understood how people can get sooo mad at family members...I only have ONE brother, and he lives far from me....I can't even imagine fighting with him for years like some in my family have done...so yes I can say with all honesty...
I do love my neighbor.
2007-07-23 14:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kerilyn 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot love your brother whom you can see, how can you love God, who you can not see. Neighbors are sometimes easier to forgive than someone closer, who is able to wound deeper.
2007-07-23 17:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by One Wing Eagle Woman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Loving your neighbor is more than the folks next door, it's the world.
2007-07-23 14:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes yes, TTC hit it right on the head of the nail. Bravo!
2007-07-23 15:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. G™ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I agree with TTC. I gave her a thumbs up.
2007-07-23 15:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
christians take it all literally and a neighbour is a neighbour not a relative, a relative is not a neighbour so they dont have to love all their relatives
2007-07-23 14:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good point to ponder one!
2007-07-23 14:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by SDC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋