and we were talking and she asked me "are you gonna try anything? warn me now.."
and i decided that being honest was the best thing to do and i told her that i was gonna try to hold hands or something like that because i don't wanna make her feel uncomfortable or feel like shes being forced to go to fast.. and eventually she said she wouldn't be uncomfortable or something like that if i tried to kiss her and i said you sure? and she said yes.
and i have been to the movies and what not with girls before and i am pretty experienced in my opinion.. but i really don't wanna screw things up with this girl on accident or something.. so do you guys think i should try to kiss her and see where that goes or wait until next time?
and please only serious, mature answers. Thank You.
2007-07-23 14:17:21 · 7 answers · asked by K Boose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have hung out once but not just the two of us she had 1 friend with her and i had 2 with me.
2007-07-23 14:50:02 · update #1
i think you should give her a kiss on the cheek. if you give her a regular kiss, she might feel that you're just one of those guys she wont remember later on. but if you show that you respect her on the first date, there's a better chance of a second date and it might stregthen her feelings for you. sweet guys are the best =]
good luck
2007-07-23 14:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by ElleBObo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this your first time with this, I think a little hand-holding. or having your arm around her is a good ice breaker, but don't try kissing her until the end of the date.
"Making out" is so immature anyhow.
Have fun
2007-07-23 21:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by TODD S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since she said its okay its okay but i would wait until next time just to keep her waiting and then do it the next time for sure. but yeah go ahead and hold her hand and stuff. if she asks why you didnt kiss her you could say because you didnt want to make her feel uncomfortable. or you could just kiss her its up to you!
2007-07-23 21:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by giarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she asked you if you were going to try anything, then she wants you to kiss her. But if you're not sure of her reaction, lean in really close and whisper "can i kiss you?" That way, she can answer without having to peel your face off of hers. Hold her hand, lean in and ask her. If she says no, shake it off! If she says yes, pucker up! It sounds to me like she wants you to kiss her, so go for it, but ask first if its your first kiss and youre in a public place.
2007-07-23 21:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Beautiful Dreamer*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't make her feel like you are being perverted or moving too fast so you should try kissing her on the cheek and then look into her eyes and see if she wants you to make the first move from there...
make sure you still have game and class but make sure to be a gentleman..
good luck....!
=)
2007-07-23 21:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. Do you already know her? or are you meeting her for the first time? If you already know her, i think you might try it. But if you're just getting to know her, i don't think i would try.
2007-07-23 21:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by jOhAn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should kiss her and hold her hands. I think she wants u to kiss her from wat she said because if she didnt i dont think she would have said its ok if u do.
2007-07-23 21:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋