to find the right guy?
before you answer, NO, I'm not fat or ugly, and my standards aren't too high, and im not some freak. It just seems like he doesnt exit : (
2007-07-23 14:08:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*** It just seems like he doesnt exist!
2007-07-23 14:20:35 · update #1
you mean exsist. I don't know what is going on but if you're not doing any of those things like have high expectations maybe you come off as unapprochable? someone once told me to smile on here. Smile more and try to appear like you're interested in what they are saying?
2007-07-23 14:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you havent found each other yet. Just wait cause having high standards (if you do) isnt even a bad thing. Cause in the long run would you rather stand firm on certain things and feel proud when you do find someone special. Or slack in what you beleive for yourself and realize you cant be in the relationship cause your not being true to yourself. Hes out there, just enjoy being single while you can. Hope that helps ~ Sheky
2007-07-23 14:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by sheky r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are, but if know your young, just to give you a heads up, your not going to find the right guy right now. Stop searching so hard, and just maybe, that right guy will come to you. Teens these days are lokking 4 da rigth one, but are not going too, because boys are immature when they are like 14-17. They dont have the qualities of what most girls are lokking for yet. Just wiat and that special guy will come. Stop trying to grow up so soo, it's not worth it. and dont think about give your sacred gift (virginity) to a guy who is like 15-16. It's not worth it, he's not woth it. Wait for the right guy. Good luck! :]
2007-07-23 14:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by Elaina G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry, I'm going through the same thing. The only guys I've dated are losers and pervs. It's tough because it makes me think that something is wong with me. But there's not. You'll find someone. I did, haha, he just has to ask me out now. Be patient and be confident in yourself. People don't like people with low self esteem. And don't lower your standards! You will end up very very unhappy. Good luck!
2007-07-23 14:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is it took me until I was 34 to find the right girl - and I'm not fat or a dork and my standards aren't too high.
Quality takes time!
2007-07-23 14:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Trapped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you date a lot? I have the same problem that you have. I think that if you put yourself out there to meet more people, you just might find the right guy. But don't worry, with time everyone has the potential to find the right one. Good luck though! :)
Peace and Happiness.
2007-07-23 14:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by Roxi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 21 years old and I ask myself the same question about finding the right girl. I have dated people, very intelligent and beautiful girls, but have not been able to find one who wanted a serious relationship.
I think I just have bad luck with relationships is my problem.
2007-07-23 14:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by The Stylish One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is either you havent met him OR you need to try and be less critical of people and try to adjust so that you meet the right guy. because although a lot of times people's first impressions can mean a lot it is definitely not everything so just keep giving everyone a chance. thats my best advice.
2007-07-23 14:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by giarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I feel the same way, I know I use to look for Mr. Right but now I just wait. If he is out there I know he will find me.
Now, I am over weight, LOL! that might be part of my problem, But one thing to REMEMBER OK!! there is someone for Everybody! So, SMILE!!!!
2007-07-23 14:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard because you are not willing to settle and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Keep looking, in the mean time enjoy dating, the right one will come around soon.
2007-07-23 14:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋