posted this question like an hour ago in case you already answered it but need some more advice
im 15 and in the uk, so here's my problem
well my girlfriend was at a party and this guy was into her she told him she had a bf (me) the he tried to kiss her and she pushed him away(sum of my m8s were at the party so i know she did) and now he tried adding her on bebo and msn
he goes to my school and im captain of the school rugby team and my m8s from the team said that i should kick his *** because he's cheeky to alot of the girls and they dont really like him anyway but im not the kind of guy who fights so they insisted they kick his *** for me to show him a lesson
should i confront him or get the rugby team to kick the sh*t out of him
and to be honest i've never really liked the guy and he is cheeky to me alot but i just leave him alone but i think he crossed the line because he knew i was going out with her
2007-07-23 13:47:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can I just say that I love you?
British AND rugby...damn. I'm a bit of an anglophile...
If this guys such an ***, confronting him will only make him go after your girl even more. It's the whole wanting what you don't have thing. He knows full well that he shouldn't be hitting on her, yet he keeps doing it. And it's not like she's been leading him on, so he has no reason to keep doing it. It's just the way his is. Threatening him might put an end to his bullsheet once and for all, but it might just make him more stubborn. Best of luck! Cheers! haha
2007-07-23 13:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by summahhh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hopeless situation and i am totally confused. i would suggest you have a private talk with him and explain that you want to nip this matter in the bud and try to make him understand you are placed i an embarassing situation. everybody is asking you about how it is your girlfriend is being hit on by another. be a super gentleman and shake hands. that way if he rejects your suggestion and doesn't take you seriiously, beating the stuffing out of him will be so much sweeter. that might work.
maybe it would be better to forget that girld and concentrate on the rugby. if you are not sure you can defeat him, best to give her up to him. it all for rugby and you don't even sound that you really care so much about the girl. if you don't really care for her. maybe you don't like girls? ask yourself if it isn't true. maybe you are more of a guy's guy, a rugby fellow not a ladies man and that silly sissy stuff. kick some butt on the rugby field.
i guess what i am wondering is that maybe she really is his girlfriend already. who knows? how could you really know? you just assume things as best i can tell. you seem more and more confused about what to do.
2007-07-23 13:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA! He was black, way to just come out and say it. In my opinion I would never ask some random person for advice on a present... for my girlfriend especially! It was a simple conversation starter, the MTV show "The pickup Artist" taught alot of things like that and thats just a basic thing to start a conversation. Then again he admitted he had girlfriend, maybe it was simply cluelessness haha.
2016-04-01 09:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by Arlene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo m8 you seem like a cool guy and non confrontational and thats cool and all but you need to fight for what is yours and that would be your girl that hes trying to get all in. ooh i know get with the rugby team and you can all have a turn beating his ***!!! good luck!!
2007-07-23 13:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have good cause to kick the crap out of him but I think you should take the high road. Down the line you'll be glad you did.
You should tell him though that neither you or your gf appreciate his cheeky behavior and to cut it out.
2007-07-23 13:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by You wish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do dont say you dont trust her. if she told him no once, she will say no again. my bf and i have been going out for like a year and whenever a guy is intrested in me he tells them to watch their back or that he will actually kick their a$$ and i know he would... but i would never do anything to hurt him.
the bottom line is trust her. it hurts so much to know your bf doesnt trust you...i have to explain that i dont love anyone else and if you get your mates to beet that guy up her trust in you might fall. it will only stirr things up more too because it might piss the guy who hit on her off.
just leave it alone and if she asks you to please say something to him...do.
good luck.
2007-07-23 13:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no need to resort to violence. Your girlfriend doesn't seem to like him, and he seems to be defeating himself by being so cheeky -- it's not getting him any points with the ladies or the gents.
2007-07-23 13:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you really trust your girlfriend then i would'nt worry to much but if you still want to be on the safe side i would talk to the guy with strong words now stuff like that don't always work but thats the only other thing you can do if you don't want to fight him
2007-07-23 13:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16 years old and i suggest you conversate with him first before taking any physical action. if he still doesnt get the point after your talk than you should let your homies teach him that what he is doing is not acceptable.
2007-07-23 13:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. If your girlfriend wants you she won't be going anywhere near him and that's the best kick in the teeth he can get!
2007-07-23 13:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by garym 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋