I dunno what to do......
2007-07-23 13:00:04 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dunno why..I just got drunk and....I'm so regretful
2007-07-23 13:04:06 · update #1
He's not my real dad
2007-07-23 13:04:47 · update #2
I'm not underage
2007-07-23 13:08:30 · update #3
I'm 20
2007-07-23 13:09:32 · update #4
No,they aren't a married couple,is just her boyfriend
2007-07-23 13:14:57 · update #5
Well...thanks a lot,really...thank you so much people ;)
2007-07-23 13:21:33 · update #6
The Steve Wilkos Show?lol
2007-07-23 15:53:45 · update #7
Was this a one time thing? Best to say nothing and let him know that it will or will not happen again. Best to hold onto
a good relationship with mom. Chances are you could loss both parents if you tell mom.
2007-07-23 13:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Wow! Bad situation alright. First of all I saw your profile, and you are hot. I can see why your step father was interested. You know, if your mother is an understanding mother or an alcoholic, then she might understand how this happened. I'd tell her. Was your step father drunk too. I'll bet not. How old is he? I think that your mother should know that the man she married doesn't really love her, he is just a horny bas tard, that just proved that he will cheat on her.
Oh, she may be mad, but it'll be out in the open, and you may have to work your way back into her trust. It's better than this thing eating away at you, always fearing that she will find out some other way. In the meantime, please don't do it again.
Oh wait, they are not married? Then he is not your step father. Still if he is your Mom's bf, then it is wrong. I'd tell her anyway. She may be grateful. But don't discount her being pissed off at you. If you have a history of sexual activity, and she is already mad at you for it, then she could really lose it.
Drunk is not really an excuse, but it's a reason. He is more to blame then you are in this situation, because I think he took advantage of a situation. Some guys do sh it like that, not all though. Good luck!
2007-07-23 13:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by UJ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say,there will have a lot of trouble in your family(you,your mon and your stepfather)Do you know how attractive a 20 years old young lady to a middle age man?and a mature man to a young girl.If you willing to slept with him one time,more times will come and to him will have same result Tell your mon right now or not is no different,if you all still stay in one roof soon or later your mon will find out.how to handle this problem is not easy,this is not simple just happen over night.My suggestion is you need to talk to your stepdad about the sever consequence and you both need to have counseling by a very experience therapy hopefully will workout or you have to move out from the house.If the whole thing is not your fault and he has no chance to be your dad infuture tell your mon and kick him out.Your mon need find other man to be your dad.
2007-07-23 14:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by brother3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a few other details ,your age would be the main detail that is missing.
With the extra info you had given I would say do not tell her it will only hurt her and may end your relationship with her;with that said I think you would like to tell her because you feel guilty, because you believe what you did was wrong, I think you and your mothers boy friend should be ashamed and do not let it happen again and leave it at that.
2007-07-23 13:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Wize Guy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How is it that you ended up with your stepfather? Were you under the influence of something or just not thinking? Are you underage? What is your relationship like with your mom? If you are an adult, is she allowing you to stay in her house. Think about all these questions before you proceed with an adult, mature and nonjudgmental discussion with your mother.
2007-07-23 13:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by llselva4 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
My name is Caroline and I work for The Steve Wilkos Show on NBC. You should be able to tell your Mom with someone there to support you and be on your side. That person who could do that is our host Steve. We would fly you and your Mom here to Chicago, and you could tell her and then explain what happend and she would have to listen. We can also provide counseling here and at your hometown if that we be needed. Please call me toll free at 877-836-3405 to talk more!
2007-07-23 15:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The right thing to do is, to tell the whole truth to your mother.
She has the right to know the kind of people her boyfreind is.
EVenthough what you did was crazy maybe because you were drunk, he was not, and he is supose to be the mature person, so he is a bad person with no principles, no respect, no everything. So Tell your mother as quickly as you can, but tell her, first... I was drunk, but I do not have excuse, I did a really bad thing, I had sex with... and I etc..............
2007-07-23 13:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by pelancha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had really sex;I give you 2 choices:
You don't tell a word to your mom and forget that forever without thinking to do it again.
Or you tell mom everything knowing all the consequences;divorce will come and much more,may be serious problems with justice for him,lawyers,court,etc.
2007-07-23 13:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom that he's a sicko or that you're a sicko? What are you from the trailer park or something? Who does that to their mother? You're better off not saying anything. It's not going to help your mother knowing her husband and her daughter are both stabbing her in the back. If you want to do something good, stay away from this guy and never see him anymore. That's your best bet.
2007-07-23 13:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by morgan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you are joking. If not, you should definantly tell your Mom.
What would possess you to do something like that? Do you have a conscience? Morals? Feelings for your Mom? I just don't understand why you would want to hurt your Mom so badly!!
Your Mom certainly deserves to know and you should be VERY apologetic and ashamed of yourself!!
2007-07-23 13:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋