I'm a hopelessly romantic girl and never see the sign or still dooesn't know whenever a guy like me. Mostly because I'm also very clueless. So I need y'all help:
How do I know when a guy is very shy??? Cause I have this guy that I really like and somehow (mayb it's just me) i have a feeling that he likes me too because he tries to get my attention. But he still hasn't come up to me and talk to me, I think he knows that he likes me because I told one of his friends about it. So he has no reason to not come up to me himself and start talkin' to me first. I want to say that he is shy, but I saw him talkin' to some people (mostly guys & he is not gay). I'm soo confused. Because I really don't know what to do...??? I really don't want to b the one that chase after him cause that will be a very desperate move. Besides, what if I do that, then he thinks I'm annoying or something. I found out that he doesn't has a girlfriend. So please help me. I'm serious about this, so don't be rude. Thnx.
2007-07-23 12:48:42 · 2 answers · asked by Jkt_Gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though he knows you like him, doesn't mean he won't be afraid to talk to you. Shyness is hard to overcome. Some guys are afraid to talk to women, I know I was. So you should just go up to him and ask him if he likes you, but do not do it in front of all his friends! You should catch him when he is alone, he probably wants you to come up to him. It is probably killing him that he can't work up the courage to talk to you, so give him a little help.
2007-07-23 12:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dorphinoct 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I sympathize with your situation, I don't understand why you think that talking to him first will be a sign of desperation on your part. Will you feel the same way if he said the same thing; if that was the reason he gave for not approaching you?Of course not.We now live in the 21st century and it is alright for women to make the first move and ask a guy out. If you like this guy (like it appears you do),the next time you can talk to him privately, let him know how you feel.Who knows --I may just get an invite to your wedding. Go get him tiger and good luck.
2007-07-23 20:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋