Dealing with my dog's death?!!!?

Question

My dog just died yesterday and I know that eventually I will get over it, but that could take a long time. Could anyone tell me how I could get over it because I always cry when I think of her and I miss her so much.? Should I get another dog to replace her and be really sad when that dog dies or should I just get a different animal or no animal?

Answer 1

Im sorry for your loss. It will take some time, don't limit yourself to "when" u should get over it. Check about pet loss on the internet, there are some good sites.

Don't ever get another pet to "replace" the loss of a beloved pet. You must love animals and genuinely WANT to bring another member into your family. Im not sure why you're worried about the new pet dying, when u haven't even gotten one yet. But I think, if you are a loving and responsible pet owner, can provide excellent vet care and take care of their needs, food, shelter, training, LOVE, then the time u have with a pet is always worth it no matter how short or how long. BUT..... u must feel this way or u shouldn't get another pet.

A new pet does not take the pain of losing the old pet away. They do give your life a new focus, as they depend on you. Loving a new pet definitely brings happiness and the occasional frustration with training, etc., LOL, but as healing as the love and happiness they bring is, it does not make your grief disappear.

good luck.

Answer 2

So sorry for your loss, and it will clearly hurt until you eventually get over it, there's just no way to get around it. The dog was put on this earth to make you happy, and it clearly did ts job due to how sad you are. Its good to cry it out because it really does feel better when you are letting out the pure emotion. The way i got over it is to think of better things in your life, even though im sure your dog was a huge part that cant be all to your life. There is always worse things than your dog dieing, people's human family dies all the time and if those people can get through it, you can surely do the same.

Answer 3

Sorry for your loss. I know how you feel my dog died in March & it still hurts & I still cry sometimes. The truth is you will never get over your dog's death it should become less painful overtime though. As for getting another dog or pet only you can decide if you are ready to love another animal, but give it some time because if you go out & get another pet to soon you may expect it to be your other dog & that's not fair to the other pet because pets are all different. I chose not to get another animal because I'm a germ freak & animals disgust me (even more since my dog died) & I'm also afraid of animals. The only reason I like my dog is because he was around since I was 4 which means he was also around before I became a germ freak.

Answer 4

I'm sorry about your dog. My dog was 17 when he died, and I cried for 30 minutes, before we put him to sleep. We agreed to to wait 2 months before we would get a new puppy. And we decided on the type - a male, Golden Retriever x German Shepherd mix.

I cleaned up the yard and dog house etc. It took two weeks to fix everything up, and I was depressed when I finished. I figured it would make me feel better to go look at some pet store. No problem, because they only have expensive puppies.

I looked around, but it was lunch time, and most places were closed or too busy. Finally, I stopped at the expensive, Mall pet store... and I found a male Golden mix. This store had just started carrying Rescued dogs, in addition to the $500 pups.

I picked him up and played with him.. but no, we said 2 months. So, I left. And, all I could think of was that puppy. Later that weekend, my family went to the pet store... and I was crying because I knew someone else had adopted him.

He was still there ! So, we adopted him.

I had learned to be a much better owner and trainer from the other dog. And one thing was funny... It took me a few months to start talking to this puppy, because the old dog was deaf... and couldn't hear me... Since, I didn't talk much to him, this puppy learned hand signals, too !

This 'puppy' is now 7 years old. He did not replace the old dog, but the puppy did fill the very empty gap. And he helped me move forward.

I hope this helps....

When you get a new puppy, come back and tell us about him... and we'll talk about socializing and training...

Answer 5

I am very sorry for your loss. I know that I will burst out into tears when my two dog pass on. Another dog would be GREAT! Though, take your time when you are looking for a dog. I would recommend going to an animal shelter and getting a dog there. You are saving a life, and, dogs at the shelter are less expensive! See when you can get to your local animal shelter the soonest. But first, think of a dog breed or two that you are interested in. That way, it's easier to pick out a dog. If you aren't sure what type of dog you want, then, you could always look at the shelter and get ideas there! Remember, though, that you DO NOT have to get a dog right away. You should deffenetly think it over and do your research on the dog breed first.

I wish you good luck, and, again, I am VERY sorry for your loss. And, NO DOG will never take the place of your dog that you had before. Thanks, and good luck!

P.S. If you have any questions about a dog breed or anything else, you can email me at: [e-mail]! Thanks!

Answer 6

my deepest sympathy on the loss of your dog. I know what it's like, and the pain is agony. I cried a lot at the time, and I still cry now.
getting over it is a personal experience, it's different for each person. maybe, if you have a lot of pictures of her having fun and looking good, you could put them up somewhere where you can look at them.
there is also a "poem" called "The Rainbow Bridge", that you can find on google. you may find some comfort there.
if you want to get another dog, I think it's a good idea. but, from my own experience, let me caution you not to rush into it. I always said that if any one of my 3 dogs died, I'd have another one as soon as possible. 2 years ago, one of them did die, and I had another one by the end of the month. I wasn't ready, and we never did bond.
my thoughts are with you in this difficult time.

Answer 7

My husband is a Veterinarian & he has found through the years people do best when they go out & get another pet. If you had a dog, get a new puppy or rescue dog. As each pet has a different unique personality, you will never replace your beloved pet, just add a new friend to the family. Caring for your new family member will facilitate & shorten the grieving process. If it is too painful to get a similar breed type, I would suggest a mixed breed or another type of dog to avoid comparisons. Pets bring so much love into a home & a new pet will just add to your future happiness!

Answer 8

Everyone is different and greives differently. The only thing that helped us over the death of our first puppy was getting a new one. We however lost our Savana at age 3 1/2 to lymphoma and it was an agonizing month and a half of suffering before she died. Even though we knew it was coming it didn't make it any easier. No one can tell you what to do but all I can say is that when you have a pet you know that you will eventually lose them. It is enevitable as their lifespan is so much shorter than ours but the love that they give makes our lives so much richer in the end that I can't imagine my life without them. I'm terribly sorry for your loss.

Answer 9

We have always had several dogs at a time and we have never given a dog away. We cherish and take care of our dogs as if they are people. And when it comes time for them to go, it is heartbreaking. I still get misty over my first German shepherd. She passed away in the early 80s. She died of cancer of the liver and spleen. We rescued a Pomeranian not too long ago. He is number 15. All these dogs have had different personalities with no two ever alike. I know you miss your dog and it's good to grieve. You take as long as you need to do that. But if you decide to get another dog, this new one will never replace the one you have lost. It will help you fill that space in your heart that is empty right now.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Peace and take care of yourself.

Answer 10

You will never completely get over it or forget it, but time really does help. Just remember the good times.
Get another dog when you feel ready. You might miss having a dog more than you realize right now. Yes, they will eventually die, too, but the love and companionship they bring to your life is so much bigger than the pain of losing them. Why not rescue a dog and know that you are saving a life?
25% of rescue dogs are pure bred, if that is an issue for you.

Good luck to you. I am sorry for your loss.