There's no way I'd ever date a guy who smoked. Even if he was Adonis himself...what would be a deal breaker for you?
2007-07-23 12:28:37 · 23 answers · asked by Alecto 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Disrespecting family.If you can disrespect your own blood, how do I know you won't do the same to me?
2007-07-23 17:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by FreeFlyingKite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really hard to say. I mean I don't like smoking personally or drinking either but some people don't usually do it that often. I'm also used to both of those things from my family.
I would allow him to drink if he doesn't become violent with it and its a beer every so often. I don't even mind video games as long as I can play them too and its not an addiction for him. I don't mind porn at all either again as long as that is not an addiction. I will even accept some lies. I mean we all tell little white lies. And given the situation lies are usually to protect us. I don't even mind the dude not having a job as long as he is actively looking for one. Cheating to me is and I do feel shall always be defined as the actual emotional or physical act that he doesn't come to me first about. So I won't say cheating because, today there are so many things that guys do that women think is cheating is actually not that bad to me. (i.e. strip clubs, having opposite sex friends, hugging and even flirting with the opposite sex.)
I'm a pretty lenient person but my deal breakers, are physical violence, verbal abuse, not even caring about my feelings and doing whatever he wants. Even just belittling me in any way, shape or form. Because I am a person and I was not put on this earth to have some guy come along and tear down my body or self esteem. Its so rare today to even find someone and when I do, I don't want to waste my time on the wrong one. Another one is major hygiene issues. I already have a religious fanatic for a dad, don't need that in my life either. Drugs are also a natural given. Also having not having dreams, goals and any active plan to better his self towards the future are all my deal breakers. I feel that since I'm open and honest enough and always on the path to make myself better then so shall he. Should never stop at one point and say that is that. Because one point is never the full end of who we can become as person today.
2007-07-23 12:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say that kids from past relationships would be a #1 deal breaker.
2007-07-23 12:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal breakers: terrible breath Drug addicts disrespectful while they at the instant are not keen to bounce or learn how to bounce somewhat yellow tooth this is all i will think of roughly exact now. yet all of those issues are issues that the different person has administration over and can choose no remember if to have it or be it. seems, are not a great deal to me yet hygiene is. lol
2016-10-22 11:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly ? I have lots of deal-breakers, I'm fussy.
Someone has to be a really good fit for me to want to be with them...otherwise I'm just killing time.
Good question by the way *
2007-07-23 12:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After my last experience, I could never date another guy that has mommy and daddy issues.
It took over our relationship sooo many times. And after two years he just decided to dump me. It was horrible.
I can overlook a lot of things, but not that!
2007-07-23 12:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by T the D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoking and the girl being a vegan. I like meat and being a vegetarian is fine but vegan is too extreme.
2007-07-23 12:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person was happily unemployed... don't get me wrong, I can make my own money, but I'd prefer my man to make his own as well. Drugs would be on the top of my dealbreaker list too.
2007-07-23 12:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who's racist or in general just has a very closed mind. With almost any other shortcomings I could probably make things work.
2007-07-23 12:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If 'she' had a penis. That would definitley be a deal breaker for me.
2007-07-23 12:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋