I met him when I was in 9th grade and he was in 12th grade. We were both virgins but during the year he broke up with me and "accidentally" lost his virginity. Right after he did id he came to me and told me because "he felt bad". well he later when to college an hour away and we were still together. But when I called his apt. girls aways answered and he always seemed to be so happy to hear from me. This went on - he even told me when I was in 11th grade "see that girl over there she is so mad at me, I took her sisters virginity". He laughed when he said it. He changed colleges and told me how great it was there. "There are so many girls" he would say. I felt I should date others. He would just show up at my house and be there when I got home. He also told me that I would never have anything without him. Recently, I wanted to do something else without him and he said that he was going over to another girls house then - I told him go ahead. She was not at home so he came back. Help!!!
2007-07-23 12:28:24 · 9 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I stay this won't change will it?
2007-07-23 12:29:20 · update #1
Obviously, he believes more in quantity rather than quality. I would say go away from him, because you are something without him. I bet you're an awesome, chill girl that's being misused by this jerk. Sounds like a huge player and you don't deserve just having a guy like you a little bit. Tell him to get away from you, sounds like he could even become abusive. I think that this really shows that "I would never have anything without him". You will have a better relationship without this loser.
2007-07-23 12:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its time to end it. Many guys when they go off to college and have a girl back home get this sort of weird mentality. You become something that keeps him tied to home or his older memories, however when he's at a party or having a good time he throws everything to the wind to be whom ever he feels like. He also seems way too possessive. You need to get out of this now and tell him he should move on. Typically a guy like this after the girl tells him its over do one of two extremes. They either get violent, or they start crying and begging. Either way it'd be best to do this in an environment your sure you'd be safe.
2007-07-23 12:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Advice4U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. I am a mother and we have all been there too. We were young once. This boy is not serious about anything. A saying I tell all young people "what is for you won't go by you". So what I am saying is, you are too young to have a relationship that is lasting. Finish school, go to college, have fun, go places, see the world and then settle down. This boy is not serious about you he has his eyes on lots of girls.
2007-07-23 12:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by killowen05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him!! He obviously doesn't respect you enough if he is constantly thinking or talking about other girls. It seems like he wants to do whatever he wants and expects you to wait by the wayside. That is not fair in a relationship, relationships are about trust and compromise. You are still really young! Get out there and find someone worth your time:)
2007-07-23 12:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the scuzzball. There is no way he could have 'accidentally' lost his virginity, and he seemed to think that sleeping with other girls proves something.
2007-07-23 12:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing here to keep him. Go.
He's horrible. You didn't point out any evidence that you are even seeing him or anything positive he ever did. He sounds like a womanizer. And, he's not afraid to tell you.
2007-07-23 12:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by 354gr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on girl, you deserve someone better. Don't waste your time with this guy. Life's too short and you deserve to be happy with someone who's going to respect you and love you.
2007-07-23 12:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by sincerely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first LEAV him. SECOND hes headed for disaster wen he dates more than 1 girl and they both show up at were he lives
2007-07-23 12:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that he thinks of you as the back up girl. time to move on. he will never think of you and the Mrs.
2007-07-23 12:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋