okay..... i broke up with my boyfriend. well he is the one who broke up with me. anyways, his BEST FRIEND who like LOVES me wants to go out with me. and i like him back. but my ex boyfriend and this other guy are best friends and i dont know if i should go out with him. because i dont want them to fight over me or ruin a really friendship. what should i do??
2007-07-23 11:18:57 · 12 answers · asked by loudbark411 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No - I wouldn't trust a "best friend" who goes after his friend's ex girlfriends. Plus, that would put you awfully close to your ex periodically. It might look to your ex like you are trying to get back at him. It's just weird.
2007-07-23 11:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnt go with him . What if you and your bf work out your problem well youd have no chance on that if you see his best friend. turn the table around would you like him going out with your best friend? Theres plenty of fish in the sea we dont need to create a well you know what i mean NO is my answer good luck
2007-07-23 11:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would invite them both to do it with you at the same time. Then you get to explore being with his best friend and not having him feel excluded. Anything else and you'll create jealousy between them and then you'll be responsible for not just you and your ex-boyfriend's breakup but his and his friend's as well. Then you all get to enjoy the best of each other.
2007-07-23 11:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by ajabaja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know this happened to me. i was dumped so the guy who was my boyfriend could go out with someone else. his friend supported me and i became friends with my ex's friend. now i'm dating my ex's friend and the two guys aren't even speaking to eachother. but my current boyfriend says my ex was a fool for leaving me and he deserves to lost friends. about your situation if u really want this guy and this guy really wants u. make sure he isnt going to be upset if he loses a friend because he's dating u. good luck. talk it over with the one guy first.
2007-07-23 11:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This friend of your ex is well aware of the risk he's taking by pursuing you. He knows that his friendship with your ex will be strained, and he knows that he relationship with you could be strained as well.
If you two have a genuine attraction, go for it. Take it slow, but don't dismiss it out of hand because of your ex.
2007-07-23 12:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him tell him that.. its the guys choice on weather or not he wants to ruin the friendship.. and you never know what you might miss out on if you pass this opertunity up besides he broke up with you so he cant really be mad can he?
2007-07-23 11:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by kiss_me22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you. I say go for the friend.
2007-07-23 11:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two really like each other who cares what the ex thinks or does it is your lives.
2007-07-23 11:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Steven M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he likes you then go out with him. As for what you should do, i don't think you need to do anything but tell him to tell his friend that way THEY work it out between them.
2007-07-23 11:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by pri1orn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not like you broke up with him so he can have no reason to get mad at his best friend or you. i would go for it and if he gets mad then he is just stubborn! i hope it all works out! :)
2007-07-23 11:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by *♫* £a£a *♫* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋