i never say this words to my bf cz i rather show it to him. is that good or bad?? is it important to say that words to him??
2007-07-23 11:18:24 · 19 answers · asked by angel 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is expressed through ACTION not over-used words.
2007-07-23 11:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lucci 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel that sometimes it is okay to tell someone you love them, but I am also a firm believer while telling my husband that I love him in words, I must also put those words into action. Actions speaks more volumes than words. Many women and men get caught and trapped because someone said I love you just to get something out of them, only to have their hearts broken because of those three little words. My husband and I tell each other occassionally that we love each other, but we also show it in, I don't mean sex. Sex is not always showing the person you love them, thats just physical. Whenever we take trips or shopping we always buy each other something that we know each other likes, its nothing extravagant but its the thought.
2007-07-23 11:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it with all of your heart, it is very important. If not, it just cheapens the whole thing. Showing this by your actions is nice, but since we all communicate differently, it can leave him wondering sometimes. You don't have to gush and go overboard, but if you love him, he needs to hear it once in awhile. Just a little extra reassurance.
2007-07-23 11:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody needs to hear it at least once. Then you can continue to show him..Maybe you could surprise him with something intimate just for the two of you say the three little words make it special and he'll never forget it.
2007-07-23 11:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by pri1orn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I love you" are very serious words. Think about that. If you really, truly, love him then you probably say it because I've been in friendships that we said "I love you" and then I was in one that my friend and I didn't say it and I think we just stopped caring about each other and we were thinking about our own best interests. I just think it's important to say it because you realize that you REALLY do love them and you'll treat them accordingly.
But everybody's different so you might not have to.
2007-07-23 11:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jaycie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't say it, you probably don't feel it. Saying "I love you" is so easy to do, that if you really do love him, there's no excuse not to. You say you'd rather show him you love him, but how do you do that? Is it all about sex? Or do you show him with little acts of kindness and caring?
You have to decide if it's love or lust. They're not the same thing, but can act similar.
2007-07-23 11:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well do you love him? If your not really in love with him then its not that important. It really depends on his personality and how he feels love. People feel loved in four major ways -by being told, through gifts, showing it, and things that they do. Find out what his 'love language' is and do that. Good luck!
2007-07-23 11:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jay N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very important but only say it if you really mean it. If you do love him but you just show him it he might not really be sure if you love him, so you should try saying it to him more.
2007-07-23 11:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by **Lilyanne** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more important to show it -- but it's nice to say it too. Some people need to hear it.
2007-07-23 11:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important when you actually love that person only. You can be in love and still not love someone.
2007-07-23 11:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by Steven M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋