everytime i see a beautiful sexxi female i get tempted but i will feel guilty if i had relations with a female because i know my boyfriend is faithful.
2007-07-23 11:01:49 · 29 answers · asked by Honeybri504 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knew i was bisexual but i agreed that i wouldn't have relations with females since we were in a committed relationship
2007-07-23 11:03:49 · update #1
what should i do?????????????
2007-07-23 11:04:39 · update #2
do it if your a woman and its another female go for it let him watch no male in their right mind would say don't do it. If you don't want him to watch let him join the two of you.
2007-07-23 11:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Satan Lives! God must Die 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have put yourself into a bad spot. You have basically denied yourself satisfaction of half of your sexual desire. I understand your reasons, and I respect it. But the fact that you're as tempted as you are implies a lack of satisfaction. I'm sure that you and your boyfriend have a good relationship and all, but what is missing? Are you simply missing that female contact? Or is it something else that's not coming up to scratch?
If you really just have a truly bisexual appetite that you aren't allowed to satisfy, then you will likely end up cheating with a woman eventually. No matter how great your boyfriend is. If something else is getting in the way, you have to fix that before you cheat to compensate.
If it's the first part, you should discuss your frustrations and your desires with your boyfriend. Explain that it's hard to deny that part of yourself and ask for his advice. Maybe all you need is some roleplay and some porn to get past the tough spots. If your boyfriend is open minded and secure enough, me may even be okay with an occasional girlfriend. But you need to determine your needs and limits so that you don't bottle it up and your relationship suffers for it.
Good luck.
2007-07-23 18:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Completely feel you ... my man doesn't like to share so we stick to the strip clubs and porn for now - I get to see my ladies naked and a few lap dances keep me sane ( plus he enjoys it too ) ... lol ... !
It's hard to keep pushing your feelings away for women but in the end you have to decide what you want more - to fulfill that empty space in your heart or stay committed to the one who loves you to death ... I know exactly how you feel - I choose to stay faithful since I know it's mostly the sex I want and not the relationship from women ... good luck ... this has been running through my head for the past year now - let me know how things work out - maybe it could help my own relationship ... !
2007-07-23 18:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with being bi. but the problem is that u agreed to not have relations with another girl. and if u do with out his acceptance and agreeing to it then it would be just like cheating. u need to tell him what and how u feel and see if u can sway him to think like u do. hell, it would be great to have a bi g/f! he should be thankful to have what most men want!
2007-07-23 18:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by john m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay faithful just has you promised. Don't get involved in anything unless both of you decide that it is OK. A one time fling is not worth ruining your relationship for.
2007-07-23 18:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by janedoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do see his point. Infidelity is infidelity. Be it with a man or woman. If you feel like you still want other people maybe you're not ready to be in a serious relationship. How would you feel if he wanted to have sex with someone else?
2007-07-23 18:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Steven M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with CuriousStacy. Seriously girl, you have big issues. If you're bi then why are you wasting time in this "serious" relationship with a GUY?
ps
you sound very bi no offense
2007-07-23 18:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by ▪Toronto Mɑple Leɑfs Fɑn▪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then sweetheart you need to tell him that your feelings have changed and you feel you may want to have relationships with a female but you don't want to hurt him by cheating, that way he can decide whether he wants to stay with you and adapt to any changes that do happen.
2007-07-23 18:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by pri1orn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's okay that you're bisexual.
but you should feel guilty if you had any sort of relations with another person.
whether it's a girl or a guy.
it's okay to find another person attractive, aslong as you don't act on it.
2007-07-23 18:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heterosexual is the way to go. Ever see two "female" ends to an extension cord give any electricity. I have not.
2007-07-23 18:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋