Ok, I'm a 17 year old female. I have an obvious attraction to guys but I find myself attracted visually to girls as well. If I see a really pretty girl I can't help but look. I have done some things with another girl several years ago but it felt strange to me. I wasn't turned off but I wasn't turned on either. It could have just been her...I don't know. But I was also younger then so...I wasn't as sexually curious as I am now.
Sometimes, I can't imagine even kissing another girl but other times...maybe a little bit. I know I would never have sex with a girl but maybe just fool around and stuff...
Do I sound like I might be bisexual? I'm concerned that I am...neither my family or friends would accept me if I was...
Please...serious answers.
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I also have "crushes" on certain actresses...but if I had my pick between one of them or a actor..I'd pick the guy.
oh and if you can- say more than just "yes" or "no
2007-07-23 10:59:49 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it looks like you're hiding it from yourself, if you talk like that i would certainly think you're a bi, i think you're doubting about it cause of your family nd friends, it looks like a decision for you, that's what i think..
2007-07-23 11:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That'a a stereotype, i'm bi yet i wouldn't in any respect date a woman and a guy on an analogous time,no longer whether they have been cool with it reason interior the top somebody or all people gets harm(all those thoughts,one relationship isn't undemanding adequate you do no longer did extra chaos via attempting to juggle 2 or combining them into one),ya comprehend i think of it particularly is like cheating,that's erroneous. So, yeah i might date a bisexual, i does no longer get jealous much less stressful reason the guy i choose for may be somebody i no i will believe.
2016-10-09 07:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by nicholls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you can seriously consider doing more than kissing girls, no. Girls are a lot more open to acknowledging the beauty in other women. For us, kissing can be part of friendship or just a way to goof off and making the boys drool a bit. Obviously you're young and there's the urge to explore, but at this point if you aren't really interested in going as far with a girl as you would with a guy, I wouldn't say you're bi.
2007-07-23 11:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by S_Gnat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Due to what you have explained, I would classify you as bisexual. You are attracted to the same sex as well as the opposite sex in the same ways. This would be a definition of bisexual. You are not acting on your interests or sexual desire for the same sex though. You could also just be going through a sexual stage at the moment. This could make you feel more attracted to both sexes. You said maybe fool around....well, with two women, that would be classified as sex...it isn't as though either of you will be able to penetrate the other.
2007-07-23 11:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
every woman deep down doesnt mind makin out and pleasuring themselves with another woman. U might say that this would make every woman gay. However, all women want a man even more than they crave a woman. This means that women ONLY ENJOY other women but CRAVE men. So, in essence there is no such thing as a lesbian or bisexual. U should feel proud of being true to urself that allowed u to realize that u like women too. good luk
2007-07-23 17:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation sounds kind of like mine. When i was going through aldoesence i had some similar experience with another female. Me and the other girl made out and we were both the same age. But i felt like it was just curiosity and never did it again. I dated guys only after that and is currently in acommited relationship for 6 years with a guy. No one knew/know about except me and that person. But sometimes i wonder how my boyfriend would react if he finds out/know about it. But I'm positive that i'm only interested in guys.
p.s i sometimes fantasize about the same sex but never doesnt act on it. although i think that it is human nature to be curious.
2007-07-23 11:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by pretty asian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey gurl dont worry about it to me it doesnt sound like you are. Just because you look at hot chicks doesnt make you bisexual, your just admiring there beauty. I do the same thing. Ans trust me a lot of girls will fool around with another girl, its just curiosity not nessicarly attraction. Dont worry about it your normal! I have a crush on a few actresses and singers, but its not like I would mess around with them if I was given the chance.So your OKAY!!!!
2007-07-23 11:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to this one. Right now you seem more bi-curious. Google bi-sexual. There are several sites that have support and chat for the bi-curious. Perhaps you could get a clearer picture of what you feel if you visited one of these. As for your family, why would they ever have to know if you were bi? You are entitled to a private life. If you were a lesbian it would probably be necessary, but a bi-sexual swings both ways. They only need to know about the way that they approve of.
2007-07-23 11:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by breezeeeee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually not sure. It might be just that you are so young. Try doing something with a girl now. If you like it you like it if not then you know your answer.
Good Luck.
**One thing though..men can do everything a woman can do for you..better. If not now..you can teach them. In case you ever have a lame experience with a young man who doesn't quite know what he's doing..keep looking til you find a man who can do it right I assure you you'll be glad you did.
2007-07-23 11:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are curious but I dont think that is bisexual, its normal to appreciate a beautiful body male or female as well as being curious about experiencing sexual experiences with either sex. Follow what you feel and have fun with it, thats what life is all about, dont worry about what other people dont understand.
2007-07-23 11:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is probably not. I think a lot of people have had "urges" or desires that make them question their own sexuality. Maybe it is just a phase you are going through. I wouldnt worry about not telling your friends and family if you do indeed decided you are bi. Your family loves you for who you are and not your sexual orientation. If your friends think it is wierd, then they arent true friends anyway. My guess is that people will be more open minded than you think.
2007-07-23 11:05:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋