mae and my sister fight all the time she just doesnt get that im 13 and shes 10. she wants 2 do everything with me and i know thats not bad but shes so annyoing she strts everthing lies to get me in trouble and acts like a baby 2 get her way she is so easy 2 forgive though what do i do????
2007-07-23 10:30:13 · 10 answers · asked by ciera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Aww... she really needs your attention... and once you realize that.. and actually give her attention not out of fulfilling a need but more out of wanting to give it to her.. you two will get along.. maybe even become best buds (of some sort)
Once you get to handle her.. saying, for example.. "okay, we'll go watch this show together, but before then, do your homework.." or "alright, let's do some of those coloring books, but after, you should let big sister do her homework"
..stuff like that.. when you actually start giving her the attention she needs (and because you actually care for her, as hinted out by the impossible-to-not-forgive-look) you can then show her that there's time for everything. You can start there if you want. Ball's in your court.
2007-07-23 11:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my little sister were like that at your age. We didn't get over it until she turned about 13 and I was 17. I don't know what to suggest for right now. But when she gets older you will probably be like best friends. She'll understand more about life and she won't be bothering you so much she is looking up to you. She's just at a funny age ya know? Just try to be the big sister and not fight with her. That makes you like the ten year old too. Believe me younger siblings really do follow by example-eventually.
2007-07-23 10:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard having a younger sibling sometimes. How about you set aside some time, say for 3 times a week , when you are with her and can do anything you want. Maybe play a game either of you like. Time when you can be yourselves. Time to explore each others thoughts, dreams and what bothers you most. Time to get to know each other. You can relate to her how you felt at that age. Find out what you want to be when you are grown and through with school. Take time to get to know each other. Make these special times so she won't feel so lost and left out. You are a teenager now and she is only ten years old but she feels lost without you. If you spend special time with her, maybe she will not want to always be in your pocket when you have things to do. These special times you have to gether will be wonderful memories to reflect on in later years.
2007-07-23 10:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Judy F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just wanting to be like you at this age. I was the younger sister. I remember wanting to go places with my sister and annoying her. Just make arrangements were the two of you can do things together and let her know you care. Invite her to a few things with you and your friends and let her know you care. Also let her know that some times you need time just for you and your friends. She will soon get older and make her own friends. When you get older you will be like best friends.
2007-07-23 10:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Cristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a younger sister is hard. My sister is two years younger then me and used to annoy me to death. Now we are in our 20's and she is my best friend. No one will ever know you like your sister and no one will ever be there for you like her. So do your best to get through the next 7-10 years and you'll love the relationship you have.
2007-07-23 10:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like she desires a certainty examine. If she began getting sessions she should not be relatively pissed off like that. perhaps she's having a troublesome time in school or does not get alongside alright with friends.
2016-10-22 11:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we are on the same situation...
thats tough though....
im starting to hate may sister already actually...
but i say...
that just dont forget that you love your sister so that youll be able to understand her...
or maybe confront her on a peaceful way..
2007-07-23 10:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by muzixlover_05jesa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take one day out of the week and just make it sister day. I think she's just vieing for your attention.
2007-07-23 10:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, your big sister, she see you as someone she wants to follow, in a way you can show her wrong and right,, its up to you..
2007-07-23 10:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her have your attention mostly at home....when you go out then go with those your age..:-)
2007-07-23 10:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋