I'm in love with this 16 yr old boy and he loves me to but he don't know it i mean he knows that i like him..... he is my sisters brother i don't know what to do every one keeps telling me i'm nasty but he's not related to me please help. i think i need dr. phill ha ha ha oh thats not funny i think i should.. oh help me.
2007-07-23 09:41:01 · 21 answers · asked by alesha1995 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-23 09:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Miss M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you too... BUT he doesn't KNOW it? It sounds to me like you have a little crush on this boy and eventually you'll get over him.
And, I know you hate to hear it and no matter what you won't believe me, but at 12 you have NO idea what love is. I'm 25 and I don't know what love is...
I don't think a 16 year old will seriously go for a 12 year old... Pretty soon he'll be driving and I'm sure he wouldn't want someone who could be his little sister tagging along...
Sorry, but that's the way it is...
2007-07-23 09:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way, but how can you know what love is a 12 years old? You're just discovering sexuality, and romance, don't mistake that for love.
Another thing, he seems a little old. Four years isn't a huge difference when you're in your twenties and older, but 4 years between kids is like night and day. Maybe find someone your own age
2007-07-23 09:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Scared_of_plants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, look I know I would get pissed off if I was you and someone was telling me this, but seriously just wait till you're a bit older - even just 14 - better 15. Enjoy your childhood right now, and don't get stressed about things like boys till you're older. When you're in love this young bad things can SOMETIMES happen - I'm not saying always, but isn't it better just to wait for a few years? Hope everything goes well for you anywayz..=]
oh yeah and btw i'm not some grumpy old parents telling you this - i'm 15 and I'm telling you the above from past experience. =]
2007-07-23 09:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by workaholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that it's great that he's going for the older women. lol!!! I do rember being that age and it was fun flirting around with the guys I bet that day she felt so confident in her self that she didn't really care what age the kid was. Not to mention a bit flaterd that he touched her butt hehe this is just shuch a cute story because, a kid at his age really I don't think that they should be doing that kind of thing. Nice post/ question
2016-05-21 03:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by hyon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not in love with the boy!!! you just like him, in a sick way....what you need to do is find someone else because is kinda nasty to even think about it, EVEN IF HE ISNT RELATED TO YOU...please concider that he is still your sisters brother!...not even Dr. Phill can help with this one..
2007-07-23 09:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by KristinaMiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few more years before you start dating. It's fine to feel "in love" at 12 but too early to be dating teenaged boys. If he's really the one for you, he will still be there when it's time.
2007-07-23 09:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he like you cause
A. there is a four year age difference
B. if ur not dating then i doubt u love him...i think u just wanna date him
C. hes in high school and ur going into what 6th or 7th grade
personally i think that at this age a 16 yr old should not be dating people in middle school
2007-07-23 09:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by joenat456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 15 and theres 2 things f**ked up with that
1) sisters brother - thats called incest
2) he's 4 years older - little thing called the 2 year rule i.e never date a girl two years older or younger
and 4 years dif. is border pedo
thts sum ****** up sh*t
it's probably jst a crush but its sooo wrong
2007-07-23 10:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date? Sure, but he'll eventually dump you for someone his own age. And odds are a guy that age just wants sex. No joke. Do NOT give in to him at your age, or you'll be really sorry. If you don't mind being his girlfriend and being dumped in a few weeks when you don't put out, though, by all means date him!
2007-07-23 09:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence i just cant see a 16 year old boy who is very much more developed than a 12 year old girl likeing a girl that young, im 13 so im just saying from my young oppionoin
2007-07-23 09:46:14 · answer #11 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋