I dont get it. I start to "talk" to a guy and I feel very interested. Then when it comes to them asking me out or dating, I get this bad feeling and I dont want to be involved with them relationship-wise anymore. I choose friendship and I feel WAY happier. If I do end up going out with them, I realize I dont like them. When Im "interested" and I think about a relationship, everything just dies. I dont understand that if I dont like them, why am I so interested as if I like them? Becuase Im pretty sure i dont?
Do I just not want to be alone or.... I dont know.
2007-07-23 09:21:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey chick u just need a break......guys are guys most of them want girls physically more than emotionally so take them just as ur friend and if u find some1 really good fr u and he have same feelings with u den get involved with it.......till that time stay away frm relationships and think of dem just as ur good friends.
2007-07-23 19:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is less pressure. There's no sex to complicate things and you don't have to spend every day with a friend like you do a boyfriend.
I'm guessing you've had a bad break up or two, and now have a hard time opening up for a relationship that may lead to another. I would suggest you just take it slow. Be friends and if there's more there, explore that over time.
Good luck.
2007-07-23 16:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it, you're happier when you don't go out with those guys. I think you'll know when you want to take it to the next level with a guy. It's better to be alone and happy than be with the wrong person and miserable.
2007-07-23 16:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Drowzeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u arent comfortable goin out wit sum 1...duh
2007-07-23 16:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mandie K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋