i hate to admit it but i am..i've been talking to a guy long distance for almost 2 years and i always wonder if something more could be...but i recently met an amazing guy and have fallen for him...i know that we could be something amazing if given a full chance, but part of me still wonders if i'm missing out with the one long distance... i feel awful and dont know what to think or do..please help with honest answers.... i'm worried i'll make the wrong choice and regret forever...
2007-07-23 06:01:57 · 7 answers · asked by CuteChic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
witch one if tempted could you not resist ? witch one are you attracted to with your whole being ? not talkin' about body parts here . body parts AND character ! remember love doesn't make logistical sense , ever . it just feels right and makes you wonderfully crazy !! I'll tell you a secret , blurting out how you feel isn't scary at all , it's fun . do it . and when you are saying the words and still feeling that tenderness at the same time , you'll know . or maybe you'll realize it was just a silly fantasy , there isn't any other way to find out than to give it a shot . your not chicken are ya ?
2007-07-23 06:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by david m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but there has been times where i've been real tempted by other fellas that were real nice and would treat me nicely. yet i also have this long distance dude. and im being loyal to him. i think it is messed up if u feel for 2 cuz if they knew about it, they wouldnt be too happy and u might lose both. u really need to think who u wanna be with. cuz the guy i talk to long distance, i dont want to lose him only cuz i feel it can be the best thing when i meet him. yet if i dont have the long distant one then obviously i will find someone else. but then i will miss him. so it's like i want him only and see where that goes. u got to keep in mind though long distance is difficult, and u dont exactly know when u'll see that person, but the one ur already r seeing is more easy to be with.
think about what u can handle and what u cant. cuz the only one to make the choice is u. its tough if u get into a fight with the ldistant person u cant right away comfort one another except on phone or e mail etc. but the other person u can just go to. think of who makes ya feel the most loved. not the one who u love most. the one u feel more comfortable with and who u know better.
2007-07-23 13:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mother Of Two Angels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, its that hard... Give up on the long distance thing for sure!! Its not fair to the guy thats around u, cause he obviously wants something and if your jaded by some loser hours away then your not fit to have a relationship. Dont miss out on something you could have, you will always regret it. TRUST ME!!!
2007-07-23 13:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by M-A- Double T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt its love. but you need to go with the guy who you feel the strongest connection with. my advice is to go with the guy you met based on the fact long distance relationships are extremely difficult. either way you will have that "what if" feeling regardless of who you choose.
2007-07-23 13:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by MoMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's possible to be in love with two people at once, but you need to choose one or the other.
2007-07-23 13:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that I can remember..
2007-07-23 13:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have
2007-07-23 13:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by ashleyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋