On july he called me and told that he was going to breake up with me to go to my best friend asnd he said that she was the prettyest and I was ugly. What should I do?
2007-07-23 05:50:41 · 30 answers · asked by criscris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You deserve better, ignore the crappy ex-boyfriend and the even crappier "best" friend. A real friend wouldn't have done then and even in the case that they did she should have approached you about it.
2007-07-23 05:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by jay k 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off playing the pretty and ugly card is the most childish thing he could do, I'm sure your not ugly he is trying to hurt you, Everyone in this situation sound like they are very young, You don't need a guy like that and if she was really your best friend she wouldn't have got between you and him, go find new friends and a new boyfriend, if he would leave you that easy he will do it to her also, wait and see. Life goes on, just enjoy life your young.
2007-07-23 13:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Bingo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that sweetie. How does your best friend feel about this? If she's against it and really means it, then you should turn to her and ask her what's the best thing to do. If she's turned her back on you and picked the boy rather than your friendship, then screw both of them and I hope karma gets them soon.
Someday you'll find the love of your life who would accept you for who you are and cherish the relationship he has with you. Don't let what happened get to you because this can affect everything you do in your daily life. Forget that prick and move on. There are a lot of guys better than him. What a jerk.. *hug*
2007-07-23 13:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him if he was willing to break up with you he was not committed to the relationship. Understand if what you thought was your "best friend" knew that she was enticing a male whom you considered to be your boyfriend, she was never really, your friend at all because a real friend would not have abetted him in leaving you. Find some new friends and when you get your next boyfriend, make sure that all of your female friends know he is YOUR boyfriend.
2007-07-23 13:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number 1 she's not ur best friend, cuz she decieved u. u aint ugly cuz if u were then y did he go out with u in the 1st place?
and also since he is being such an a*s. the only way to make some1 feel like shii is living better than them. show him he aint worth nothing getting upset over. and that ur way better than him saying ur ugly. just be glad u found out his true colors. guys like that r seriously stupid.
2007-07-23 13:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mother Of Two Angels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new best friend because a real best friend wouldnt take ur man away. he sounds like a jerk and not worth any of ur time. So dont stress, i know gettin dumped like that always is gonna make you feel kinda crappy but its really not worth it. Find some one who will treat u with respect and isnt just all about looks either.
2007-07-23 12:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by hines555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is her problem now and if he will do it to you the there is a chance it could happen to her. Let her know what you know about him and let it go. She is her own person. If she is OK with dating the jerk who broke your heart then let her, just show that you are a better friend then she is and be there for her no matter what.
2007-07-23 14:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by punkin1427 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about this, what goes around comes around. Your best friend will dump his *** for a better one, then he will know how it feels to be dumped. As far as your "best-friend," well that really shows you how much she cared about you. She really didnt care. Friendship is always important, guys can come later. And if that *** really loved you and cared about you he wouldnt have plagairzed your relationship with your friend.. Get me!! In the long run you will fiind someone who treats you with respect and loves you for who you are!
2007-07-23 12:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... I broke up with my boyfriend for his best friend once, and now we are happily going out. I would probably say (and this is NOT supposed to sound mean) get over it. Get over him, and over your best friend. What he said was not nice, but don't try and get revenge.... Just move on.... They couldn't help who they liked, and it was each other. I understand not liking them anymore, and you don't have to be their friends, just I wouldn't be rude to them, just don't be friends. Maybe over time you will become friends again like me and my ex-boyfriend.
2007-07-23 13:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Amaya Kyuuketsuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should smile, say "Oh...well....okay. Clearly I'm better off not dating some guy who has the hots for someone who is supposed to be my friend.....Oh, and you might want to be careful, you know, when she gets her breakouts...you know, you don't want to get infected or anything..."
Then pat him on the shoulder sadly and walk away, happy that you found out now what a snake he is (and your friend, too).
2007-07-23 12:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋