my mum keeps bugging me to go to the cinema with her, my mum and dad are divorced since like 10 years and i stayed at dads for a few weeks and she keeps bugging me to go to the cinema in a few days, i am 16 and dont want to hahaha
what can i say
2007-07-23 05:46:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
its just the premier of a film in which some of my friends and only people my age will be going
2007-07-23 05:56:19 · update #1
Go. It's one time and it'll make her happy. Since you're 16, I'll let you in on a big secret. Being grown-up means very often doing things that are good for other people! Sucks, I know. lol. But seriously, give it a try.
2007-07-23 05:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should go with her. I have only gone to one movie with my mom in the past couple years but we had a blast. We also used to watch alot of movies at home.
You should never be embarrased of your mom. All the lucky people you know have one too, and know what they can be like.
I now live half way across the country from my mom and I really miss all the fun we used to have together.
If you really don't want to go to the theater with her, suggest you two rent some movies and get some icecream or something and stay home. That way she gets to have your company (which is all she really wants) and your friends or what ever foolish thing is holding you back wont be an issue.
definatly make an effort to have some 1 on 1 time with your mom. She might seem out of touch, but she has lived through most of the things you will and she's a well of advice. She's probably cooler then you think, and she probably did crazy stuff as a teen that you could never imagine her doing.
2007-07-23 05:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest a different activity you can do with your mum.
Have a little sympathy, your mother is lonely and wants to spend some quality time with you. If you're embarassed to be seen at the movies with your mother, then suggest you do something else together - have a nice dinner, go sailing, play board games, whatever. Don't be selfish and just think about whatever YOU want to do - part of growing up is taking care of other people, and paying attention to their emotional needs.
2007-07-23 05:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you go and see the film on a different day or time when your mates will probably not be there. If not try doing something else she probably wants to spend some time with more than see the film.
2007-07-23 06:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how awkward it will be like...
I probably ask my mum the reason for sudden interest in movie...if she is really keen and has been missing it for very long, I will be glad to show her the way and encourage her to go with her friends in future. You could pick a movie that suit her more.
If she is more keen to spend the time with me rather than going for movie, I would probably suggest bringing her to places more comfortable for both e.g. high tea, shopping, a walk in the park.
I think you wouldn't mind just to give her some of your care and time or you wouldn't be that bothered now.
Cheers!
2007-07-23 06:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by charmvinci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pondering you may not write with acceptable grammar it shows you're actually not mature adequate to look after your self in case you went out to the cinema with/without pals. i don't blame your mum, in simple terms be grateful she is calling when you and in simple terms patiently anticipate the action picture back out on dvd.
2016-12-14 16:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by schebel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on, be a sport, take her to the cinema !!
whats wrong with that ?
she just misses you and wants to spend some time with you !!
if you really dont want to see a movie with her then take her to dinner or something, as long as you get to spend some time with her !!
2007-07-23 05:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say, I would be glad to go to the Cinema with you mom. Keep quiet and be glad that is all that you have to worry about.
2007-07-23 05:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky you still have a Mother that wants to spend time with you! With all she's done for you, going to the show with her is nothing, make your Mom happy and GO!
2007-07-23 05:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by wish I were 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with her, but get off first, and sit a few sits up from her, then get out of the cinema as fast as possible, OR if you don't want to look like a prat, you could go with her, and sit by her, and enjoy the movie...
2007-07-23 05:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Prada Marfa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋