ok so me and this guy have been seeing each other, and were taking it slow because we just got out of bad realationships. in a week or so he has to do like a lil less than a month in jail and sometime after that hes goin to job corps for culinary arts. its rare to find someone who knows wut they want. his jail offense really opened his eyes to what he needs to change and he has. he is a really sweet guy and kisses my hand like a gentleman and he walked 2 miles yesterday in 100 degree weather just to see me cuz he promised he would. now my question is should i stick with the realationship even tho he has jail and job corps or not?
2007-07-23 05:30:29 · 7 answers · asked by Raven S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also this jail thing happened b4 we started seeing each other. he is waiting for a letter for when he goes in
2007-07-23 05:34:55 · update #1
People can change.
You might be the support he needs.
2007-07-23 05:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, what do you really feel for this guy? What do expect from any guy you meet? If you really feel comfortable with this guy, eventhough you know his history and the fact that he will be in jail and then in culinary arts, what is left of you two? If you think you may have a future with this guy, and you are willing to wait for him well then give it a try. But always think things through before you actually do them. Be 100% sure of what you want to do in life. But for the most part enjoy your life. Guys come and go, but just think about your feelings for this guy, once you have them clear then you can take any decisions.
2007-07-23 05:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say why he was in jail. This would have a lot to do with any advice one might give you. If it was a drug problem I wouldn't get serious unless he is straight for at least a year. If it was something stupid like stealing a car then I would say let your heart lead. He sounds like he is crazy about you and is treating you with great respect, that is very good. If he goes through culinary school he should make a decent living.
Good luck.
2007-07-23 05:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Don 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very very careful. Back off and watch what happens for a while. If his jailable activities are a one-time thing, he will not go back in there, but if he is like a lot of jailbirds I know, you will spend a lot of time visiting him in prison if you link up with him. Boyfriend remodeling rarely works, save it for your first house.
2007-07-23 05:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him this much i think that you should try it !! Just don't get attached to much although it would suck you could still get hurt! But just take things slow and see how it works out !
2007-07-23 05:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by mimi1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is worthy of a second chance.
2007-07-23 05:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ Pamela ♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him that much then stick it out
2007-07-23 05:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋