A true gentlemen needs HELP: I keep staring at her RACKS!!! Why ME and HER BREAST...?

Question

I hate to admit it, but the first thing I always notice from a hot girl is her racks. Especially if her "cut" is "revealing".

I know it's not considered polite, but I cannot avoid it. I always stare at her breast first before I start the conversation.


What should I do as a true gentlemen here? I don't want to offend anyone, so any good advice here? Could anyone share its personal opinion or similar experience here? About girls and their racks?

Answer 1

Learn to look her in the eyes . Wait until you know she is looking YOU in the eye. Learn to glance down at her rack and take it all in in the span of three seconds. Then look back at her eyes and give her an appreciative grin. That way she will know that you appreciate her breasts. She might smile back, she might blush. If she covers her breasts then she is either playing teasey exhibitionist or is maybe still self conscious about that huge rack. In that case just move on.

Another tactic is to compliment some other part of her body or wardrobe. Tell her you like her shoes, or her earrings for example. Then you will both be more comfy about you looking at her melons.

As you get better at this you will learn to make polite comments such as " I like your top/dress." " that looks very nice on you." to the more risqué comment about her actual rack. You can be politely risque. Please keep in mind that risque comments are only to be used by advanced breast watchers with lots of flirting experience.

It is not that difficult to appreciate femenine beauty and entertain lustful thoughts and still be a gentleman, many women find it charming. Belive it or not, there are many "nice girls" who are aware of the effect their breasts have on men and enjoy showing them off and having them admired. They are just as turned on by your looking as you are by the looking. Again, remember to vary to parts of her body that you look at so you will both be more comfortable.

Enjoy. One last word of advice. If a woman has large breasts and is offended by your looking at them then she is the one with the problem, not you. Maybe you will get lucky like I did with my 34DD wife who for my birthday parties always invites all the bustiest babes she can find and has them show them off- because they ALL know what I like.

Answer 2

The problem here is that you are fighting nature. All we are is educated animals. Take the education part out of it and we are just animals like any other animal. Almost no better than a dog. As such we have urges and desires. However, we are no regular animals. We belong to a special group. That is we are social animals. There are other animals that are also social like dogs, birds and a few others. The thing is that in order to survive we came up we cetain rules and regulation on behavior. Some of these rules required us to change our behavior. One of this rule is you shall not stare at a womans bossoms and drool.

The first thing is to assure you that you are quite normal. Men do this all the time many times a day. Is a good thing that God did not put breast on fish other wise every men would be a full time fisherman. Still it is not an acceptable behavior and it makes people uncomfortable So what to do?

You have already taken the first step. To recognise the problem or at least your behavior. You are now aware of your actions. The next step is just to work at it. Every time you notice yourself staring correct yourself. Look at the ceiling or force yourself to look at something else. Maybe carry a book around with you. As you see the girl walking by towards you start staring at your book. It will be taken as if you have no interest on her.

Another thing to do is get a girlfriend with as you put it "a nice rack" It will help curve your habit. Notice how I say help not eliminate or get rid of. You can then stare all you want and more than likely she will like it because it will mean that she is the center of attetion.

The other thing is to demistify breasts. You see you give breast too much importance. Is like a dog waiting for its owner to give them a piece of a juicy stake. Bad dog. To us the stake is not that important because is food just like any other food. It is a common thing. Sure is good but is nothing to loose your head over. So try to make breast just a common part of the body like ears, and forehead. Then it will loose its importance.

Forgot to mention, as the animals we are we are also very trainable. A girlfriend of wife can help you train you out of your habit. By help I mean force you but, since you anted to quit anyways it is safe to cal it help.

Answer 3

I consider that you simply usually hit the nail at the head. His hormones are raging and he simply can not support himself. And you are correct, this is a faze however it is going to by and large under no circumstances move. Breasts are probably the most wonderful matters to a boy and it particularly does not topic who is frame that they're on. There are a pair methods you'll get him to give up regardless that; comparable to, telling him to give up, first and primary. The best factor dangerous approximately being wholly sincere approximately it's that he'll be tremendously embarrassed. Which can reason plenty of anxiety among the 2 of you. Another factor that you'll do is, whilst you trap him looking at you, stare at his crotch subject. When he askes you what you're doing inform him that if he could make you uncomfortable, that you'll do the equal to him. That will have to make him recognise that what he's doing is flawed.

Answer 4

you could start by finding a better word... than rack. However, in your defense.. it seems some women are wearing tops alot more revealing than i remember..before. however you have to t remind yourself that it is polite to look everyone in the face when having a conversation. male or female. glance is normal ..to stare is immature.

Answer 5

No worries here bro. This is what you do. If you do this and you feel you've gotten caught, to avoid the awkwardness make mention of how dry your contacts are and that you can hardly see anything. Its a lie, but it will make it less uncomfortable for both. Or if you feel especialy bold, you can simply be honest and tell here you are very sorry but her clevage is very distracting, and you'll try to do better. The last one has very mixed results. Good luck.

Answer 6

Gentlemen dont refer to womens breasts as racks on public forums. first of all.

if you dond know how to handle yourself in public with a lady then you are as far from a gentleman as you could possibly be

Answer 7

Start your interaction by taking both of her hands,take a step back with arms extended.Give a look down and up and say "Wow! You look fantastic! Are you working out!" This gives you the chance to look several times if you're good and is an easy way to start the conversation. Plus it makes her feel good about herself,confident,attractive.I don't think attractive confident people mind being noticed.

Answer 8

At least you're honest about it. I think some women do dress for attention. As long as it's a quick once over and not your entire focus, I wouldn't be offended.

Answer 9

True gentlemen don't call it a Rack!! Being attracted to a women's breasts is not necessarily bad but it is disrespectful to stare at them.

Look her in the eye and show her some respect.

I used to be a waitress and a young kid came in and stared at my chest the entire time I was standing at his table. I looked him in the eye and told him he should look at my face because my chest won't take his order! He was very embarrassed but at least he kept his eyes off my chest the rest of the time.

Answer 10

I think its not uncommon. Women do it too. I sometimes where a little bit more revealing clothing and I notice people gauk at my tatas. Seriously, women do it too. So don't feel bad. I think it 's a natural reaction.

Best bet would be to try and look her in her eyes. It also would be best to look around her when talking, just so you don't look down there.