I already wrote about this topic before...when I had a pregnancy scare in the past, I received much opposition from so-called "friends" about having the kid. People discouraged me from keeping it & kept rationalizing reasons about why abortion wasn't completely bad(I'm pro-life). Here I thought I was decently capable of raising a kid if need be(I have an education, >1 job, I'm not a teen, etc), but apparently others didn't think so. Then yesterday, my friend & I were discussing this & she agreed that they were rude & incorrect, then she said that perhaps they didn't realize just how capable I am, & pointed out what SHE considered to be the #1 factor that makes people judge if someone would be capable of raising a kid or not.
So just curious, what do YOU think is the #1 most important factor that makes someone capable(or not) of raising an unplanned kid? Is it the person's job/financial stability, or relationship status, or age, or drug/party habits(or lack thereof), etc?
2007-07-23
01:49:57
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I know there's a LOT of factors that go into such a big decision to raise an unplanned kid, but what's the FIRST thing that enters your mind? The FIRST thing you'd think of when you hear that someone is accidentally pregnant and you think "that's a shame, because it'll be very hard for her to raise this kid"??
2007-07-23
01:51:14 ·
update #1
Julie R: Thank you for responding, however, you didn't answer the specific question. What is the #1 factor that YOU would immediately think of when considering if you should feel either "happy" or "sorry" for someone that is unexpectantly pregnant?
2007-07-23
01:59:28 ·
update #2