Ok, there is this guy that I see almost every day. I have known him for like 8 years. We are friends. But I like him so bad. I like cry all the tme and this is why. He says that he only likes skinny girls. I am not really fat, just kinda. How do I get him to like me if he doesnt like fat people. And please dont say be yourself, becasue i am working on that. I need help please.
2007-07-22 17:35:43 · 30 answers · asked by ♥MeGaN♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You deserve someone who loves you , the total package and you sound beautiful. The guy from his comments indicates his limitation to be that he is shallow. Truly a person such as yourself would be better suited with a person of depth. It is interesting, I am noticing this more and more, the valuable people cry over the loss of shotty people, and shotty people hold no esteem for valuable people. Its an inversion of what should be going on.
2007-07-22 17:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by EM-water2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
god i hate people who are like be yourself its like it dont freaking work duh and ones that say there will be more guys its like i didnt ask that haha...well i would go on diets and exercise start running find a sport you like and practice somewhere go to exercisetv.tv ...i think thats the namego to the studio and click on build your own plan then check off select all videos then click on ones you think youll need and do them 2x a day 3x a week i do the "2 minute abs" one and the "sexy shoulder" ones because i want to get some muscle im an athletic girl kinda but the ones i like besides those two are "ab blaster" "no more crunches" "ab cycling" and many more do them 2x a day 3x a week (i do mine tue. wed. thur.) heres what happens .the first day will be okay. then you might not feel your muscles growing till the third day thats why you take a break. then once the pain stops start going 2x a day 4-5 x a week. also do cardio workouts they really help most of the workouts are about 2-5 minutes long but some may be 10 minutes but they work!! oh but if you dont want to do the effort for this then your on your own sorry!!=((
these workouts are great i just move my computer chair and lay on the floor and workout!!
hope he likes you after your working out but if he dont you got a good body out of it
2007-07-22 17:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by HS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DuDe...Guys Come and Go, Theres lots of fish in the sea,Besides since he said he likes the skinny girls if he keep saying that line to you over 4-5 times then theres probly no chance Im sorry but u can try working out If you like him THAT BADLY, But remember There are MILLIONS of DuDes out there So Dont Worry about it and stop crying Be Positive this is just one guy Ok
2007-07-22 17:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well , as I see it, if the guy is so shallow that he he doesn't like people for themselves and only for their body type, then he isn't worth crying over. You seem like a sweet person. Find someone who cares about YOU, not what you look like. Of course if you are going to obsess about him and nothing else in the world will make you happy, join a gym, lose weight and become what he wants. I feel quite sure if you do this though, you will find he has several character flaws which you will find less than attractive.
2007-07-22 17:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by armyman71351 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is saying that as a hint - maybe because he is not interested in you and he doesn't want to lead you to believe you have a chance with him.
I would just continue to be his friend as you have been, but I would tell him (when the subject comes up again) that his way of thinking is shallow and he may be missing out on a really great person out there because of it. Also, mention that one day he may be fat and someone may not like him because of it.
I hope you find someone who really loves you for you - big or small!
2007-07-22 17:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy friend tell me something quite similar. It really just sounds like he was saying he didn't wanna be anything more than friends. Like if he tells you something reguarding your appearance, maybe you'll leave it at the friends level and not want anything more. Or you could lose the weight, but I'm guessing he'll make up another excuse about you, like your hair color, or personality traits. Sounds like it's best to keep it platonic.
2007-07-22 17:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tarah Jiggity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls and guys alwaysss answer their own questions in these kinds of things! just be like *it isn't that i never wanna talk to you again, but the sex related questions are really creeping me out, and i wasn't the one who texted you. you're a nice guy in real life, but you act a lot different when you text. it's really freaking me out. I really am sorry my friend texted you, but i do NOT love you, i hardly know you. No matter what you think about it, you are wrong. what i just told you is the 100% truth, so please stop asking me sex related questions. i don't like when you do it and would be nice if you cut it out. the best i got honestly, if he doesn't get the message there, then YES, the creeper is going to be a creepy stalker, sorry if he doesn't get the hint :(
2016-05-20 22:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen hun...
guys r always gonna be assholes and thats a fact!
and if a guy only goes out with skinny girls that means he is vain and only cares about what a girl looks like and u don't want a guy like that u wanna find a guy who like u for who u r and don't care if ur a little bit chuby its all good some guys actuly find that attractive an i know u prob really like him but it just sound like he is just a jerk and not worth ur time....don't just try to lose all kinds of waight for him if u r happy with ur apperance. DON'T CHANGE 4NO one no matter if the guy u r tryin to imperess is super hot... if he don't like u the way u r then "**** him" he is not worth gettin stressed about.
2007-07-22 17:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cena,
You have to start working out and try to lose some weight, but don't try to starve yourself to death. No guy is worth dying for and this is coming straight from the horse's mouth.
When you start to get results from your diet and workout, he'll see that you are making an effort to get his attention. This might convince him that you like him and that you'll be a changed person, if he gives you a chance.
Best of luck
2007-07-22 17:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by itz_ma_life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha, Ha! Okay If You really like this guy. Ask him what else he likes. Does he like plump lips, or great hair? You could have something else he desires more or as much. And if being skinny is the only thing he likes, and your willing to diet and exercise try that.
2007-07-22 17:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Nails 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋