My own twin sister thinks I'm dumb & she thinks she has authority over me. & when I don't give her money or do what she tells me to do, she beats up on me & calls the police on me. One time, she told her husband to give me a ride home, & she told me, "You BETTER sit in the back seat because if you sit in the front, then that means you sexually want my man." I am not attracted to that dude whatsoever! Who besides her wants to be with a deadbeat dad who can't keep a job & leaves them home alone for months & months & just pops them up with babies all the time? But anyway, she lets her friends sit in the front seat with her husband. So what's wrong with me sitting in the front seat? & she's also a bully.
& one time there was a guy who raped me, & she tricked me into facing the guy again because she called me over to her house & lied & said it was an emergency, & I had no idea the guy was there, & I came & he was there, wanting to fight me for reporting him for rape, & she laughed.
2007-07-22 15:30:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She is so cruel. I would be so hurt if my sister behaved like that. It is amazing you turned out so compassionate and kind and she turned out to be so mean. I feel so badly for you. God bless you.
2007-07-22 17:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, try sitting down and telling her how you feel. She may not realize what she's doing.
If that doesn't help, just laugh when ever she treats you that way. It's an unexpected reaction and her hangup won't be fed properly, so she'll probably quit.
2007-07-22 22:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is someone forcing you to be around her? You do have the choice to stop the relationship. You dont answer her calls and you dont let her in your house. If she harasses you, you call the police. Dont talk to her, not a word. If you do youll be giving her ammunition to hurt you.
2007-07-22 22:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is a bully - and you are being abused by her.
Stop being with her - just say NO - you're letting her abuse you. If it was anyone else, you wouldn't put up with her crap - but since she's family you think you need to.
Go someplace else and get healthy - you don't need her kind in your life, family or not. Maybe someday she'll grow up, and then you can re-unite.
2007-07-22 22:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you still associating yourself with her. you two are grown so if she is a beeotch then you should stay away from her. She is probably over possesive of her husband because if he finds her attractive then chances are since your twins he finds you attractive even though she should trust with him so you should probably stay clear of him anyone since he is already bad news.
2007-07-22 23:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think your twin should go get help or something cause she shouldnt ever treat you that way.
2007-07-22 22:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋