OK so this girl comes to my apartment every single day! Sometimes she comes and asks for food! So it's really annoying and I want her to stop. If you need more information here it is:
1. She always mooches off of us
2. She doesn't only bother me, but she also makes my brothers go crazy.
3. She's always talking about me in front of people and I don't want her to do that.
4. Then she always like "Do you know so-and-so" so when I say no and then she's like "YOU DON'T KNOW HER?!"
So that's what I can provide you with..I have more reasons but it's just to much
2007-07-22 15:28:42 · 21 answers · asked by Koreane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If I don't answer she'll bang on the glass door and start screaming my name
2007-07-22 15:41:23 · update #1
My brother's won't help because once she came in the morning and my brother was screaming at her but she came back anyway.
2007-07-25 04:34:30 · update #2
maybe she's a stalker???
2007-07-26 15:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by cherokee squaw 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, I had the same problem. It was solved for me though because I accidentally offended her mother because I didn't know the painting in their living room was Jesus since I didn't grow up in a religious family...it caused a big scene.
As for you though, maybe you should tell your brother to annoy her. Tell him to possibly say something so mean it'll make her cry and not want to come over anymore. Or possibly tell her that your mom thinks she's a bad influence and that you can't hang out with her anymore. You could also tell her flat out that you don't like her. That may or may not end well though because she'll most likely stop hanging out with you, but if you two have mutual friends, then you can't be sure who the friends will side with.
Good luck though.
2007-07-22 16:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bats 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this girl is really hurting inside and she needs you as a friend.
I know that needy people can be extremely hard to get along with, but maybe your family is the most stable in her life right now. Maybe some other area of her life is out of control.
This may sound painful, but try to find a church with a good youth group and good youth group leaders. Even if neither one of you are religious, they should make you feel warm and welcome. If you go with her a few times, it might help her make more friends and that will take some of the strain and burden off of your shoulders.
It might take a couple months, but you would be blessing her and showing her kindness. We all need that at some point in our lives.
2007-07-30 10:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by TruthSeeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell he that you want her to stop coming to your home and if she doesn't stop, you will call the authorities about the situation. Sometimes you have to be firm and let her know you mean it. She has no right to intrude on your life what so ever. Do what you need to do. I would start by not letting her in at all.Don't feed her or feel sorry for her either. She probably is used to bullying people. Don't be another victim.I wish you well.
2007-07-30 15:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by bitsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her 2 stop going 2 ur apartment everyday and tell her u don't want 2 be her friend or any thing else. when u don't answer the door tell her 2 go away and 2 stop going 2 ur apartment, and because of girls like her is why u moved into an apartment (maybe not but she won't know). :) =)
2007-07-30 05:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by Snuggle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like something i saw on king of the hill one day the divorced pedro that works with hank selling propane and propane accesories gets a divorce or is in a fight anyway after that he wont let hank or his family in peace in the end he goes crazy trying to get in, but if you dont give in to the phone calls or the screaming and banging then theyll leave ..... that was a funny episode
2007-07-30 07:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is mean, but my Dad did it once to distract a buddy of his who kept coming by, he left a pile of dog poop at the front door (disguised so he'd step in it, which he did)
He seemed to get the message, stopped coming by.
2007-07-29 16:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
allright the best bet is to call teh cops sometime when she is banging on the glass door calling your name. or file a stalking case or a restraining order or something cuz that is a bit much don't you think?
2007-07-30 07:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself. Be honest with her and tell her straight out. If she doesn't get it, just don't answer the door. She should eventually get the hint.
2007-07-27 09:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello, you have a problem well you have to tell her how you feel and let her know she just cant show up without notice,also if she does not listen to you tell her you have to leave now or im calling the cops. ok bye bye now!!! good luck paula j
2007-07-30 03:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by pj! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling her to leave you alone and stop coming to your house? maybe she is like a lost dog you feed them and they keep coming back.
2007-07-30 11:53:06 · answer #11 · answered by Lorena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋