I used to be saved. Doesn't seem like it now. I haven't been able to pray for a long time. I asked God, if he helped me to pray I would pray every day. God came through, but I wasn't able keep it up for long. Ill be going to hell for that. I have sexual problems. I have probably caused problems convincing my finance to do things we shouldn't. Don't seem to pay attention in church. I don't really learn or remember much.
In general, with the anger and problems I have I just do not see a saved life in me.
I suppose it wouldn't be a righteous thing for me to blame my life on the fact that about a year ago I moved in with a friend from school, Bi and worldly, but i'm starting to think it would have been better for my soul if I had chosen to move into the back of my truck rather than in with him.
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2007-07-22 14:25:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Seems my connection with god has been lost. How am I going to get back with God when the problems I have, Im not able to overcome. Sexual and otherwise.
2007-07-22 14:30:41 · update #1
Mike, Jesus still loves you. Repent and return to your first love. I will pray for you.
2007-07-22 14:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by A Voice 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The very fact that you admit that you can't overcome the problems is proof that you need to return to the Lord. Please remember it is "His faithfulness" and not yours that matters.
Remember the story of the prodigal son in the book of Luke 15:11-32 when the young man left his father and went the way of the world? When he came back he was humbled and begged to be his father's servant, but the father took him in and held a great feast because of the joy he felt at having his son back again. The boy didn't deserve the feast but the father loved him so much he didn't condemn him but gave him back his place.
God's love is greater than any earthly father, and He is always ready to take you back in no matter how far you have drifted from His love and care. The fact that you have such feelings and desires shows you have the desire to return to Him. You cannot rely on your feelings because they are very unstable. We are all alike - one time we are up and then in a minute or two later we are angry or sad or whatever. Our emotions change far too much to be a reliable test of whether God will forgive us and take us back again.
Remember, it is faith - not feelings that matter. Go back to the place of prayer and seek God with all your heart and He will forgive you. Then determine that nothing or nobody or no feelings or anything else will ever cause you to turn again.
I am not promising you an easy road, but I can promise you a sure one because God will support and sustain you as long as you determine to stay firm in your commitment to Him.
He can still use you to reach out to your lost friends when you regain your spiritual strength.
2007-07-22 21:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is sin in your life. If you were saved, and you are having this much trouble-something is definitely wrong. Maybe you have some sin that you are allowing to take over in your life. If you are living with an openly bi person that may be a large part. Are you in a serious Bible study program? Do you have regular fellowship with other believers? Are you reading your Bible every day in some systematic fashion? Have you discussed this with your pastor?--that would be a good start.
2007-07-22 21:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Skip-Jack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to overcome those problems, specially if you don't realize that there is a *spiritual* issue there, not only a mental or physical one (although you may have some of these, too).
You should have had Christian friends to hang out with, not only the influence of your friend from the school.
But there is hope, of course.
You should read this book "The bondage breaker" by Neil Anderson.
http://www.amazon.com/Bondage-Breaker-Neil-T-Anderson/dp/0890817871
In fact, the front cover states: "overcoming: negative thoughts, irrational feelings, habitual sins"; sounds familiar to you? :)
Anyway, I think you will need the help of a church. Look for a Bible based church which believes in deliberation; in the power of the Holy Spirit. With the help of other believers you may be able to keep you free. We are to help each other.
The enemy will try to stop you to be free, but don't listen to the discouraging thoughts you may get in your mind. Fight and you will prevail in Jesus name.
2007-07-22 22:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by Joshua 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That what repentance is for, repent and ask forgiveness. We all have to grow in Christ. Dust yourself off and keep striving to be like Christ. A girl once told me a story about how we are broken vessels trying to fix ourselves when we can't but, God can take a broken vessel, being the great potter that he is and pick up all the broken pieces and start putting them back into place. You just have to let go and let God.
2007-07-22 21:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sheila E 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You care so little for everything it seems. Sorry about that mate.
So when Jesus said:
5 Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. 6 But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root. (Matthew 13)
You couldn't see that as being what you are doing, eh? No little tremor of guilt from that?
I will help you. E-mail me.
2007-07-22 21:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually, who we spend time with can greatly affect us. But we all struggle with worldly things and desires of the flesh. Being a Christian doesn't mean we don't sin or that we live perfect lives. It just means that we know that Jesus died for our sins, and that we can be free from the burden and punishment of those sins if we confess them to God and ask for forgiveness.
I hope this helps in some way. If you would like to discuss this, feel free to e-mail me.
God Bless You!
2007-07-22 21:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by mmilner_24 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask God for forgiveness, then find some help! People are weak and sinful; that's just the way it is. If you had someone holding you accountable, it would be easier for you to keep your promises to God.
For example: tell your fiancee about your thoughts and it might help to talk with your pastor, too. Once it is all out you will feel better and do better.
God isn't waiting to condemn you, He is waiting to bring you closer to Him!
God bless.
2007-07-22 21:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by January Love 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your feeling down, sounding a bit depressed and maybe lonely. God is within you, talk to him whenever you like, make him your partner, God is everywhere. He doesn't judge, he doesn't punish, he is nothing but Love, and anything good and positive. He says you can love anyone and everyone. Have faith in the power he has given you. God Bless.
2007-07-22 21:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by pinkeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your saved whether you feel it or not. You were never saved by feeling like it anyway. We are all saved by the life and death of Jesus Christ, so don't get too upset. You're still saved. One of these days you will start getting in tune with God again and, probably at a deeper level. All of lifes experiences are valuable.
2007-07-22 21:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by expertless 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you lost your faith because of your friend you didn't have it to begin with. You need to find peace in your heart by leaving the church you are currently attending and finding another one. Above all else, don't let people judge your heart. Only God can do that.
2007-07-22 21:28:37 · answer #11 · answered by The Pope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋