To all Christian, can you answer this?

Question

Relax. Take a deep breath. Think about what I am asking you. Then answer with nothing but the truth.

Descirption: I'm 25 years old, 97% deaf, physically challenged, weigh less than 100 pounds, smart, intelligent, drives a car, jobless, qualified for SSI, a virgin.

Now, if you were single and I approached you, would you date me?

Before you say yes to avoid from hurting me, take a deep breath again, look into your heart, try to find the true feeling of this question and answer honestly.

Thanks.

Answer 1

yes, you are Gods child and there are no limits in God in what he can and will do and he can change your life in an instant
with God nothing is impossible
you are a good person and deserve the best
love and prayers always...................

Answer 2

the only problem is you are a guy :)

I mean i'm celibate and not getting married but if a girl by this description were to take an interest in me . .. really depends on the person i guess . .. 25 good age, deaf not a problem, phsyically challenged like in a wheel chair? less than a 100 pounds well kind of petite . .. if you are a guy well seek a small girl i guess . .. maybe a handicapped girl would would like to be your friend, but don't rush into romance until you want to spend your life with someone. all the rest isn't really important i don't think . .. it is all about LOVE and committment .. . but if you marry and have a child you'll have to take care of your family . .. better get a job.

LOVE your neighbor as yourself.
Amen.

Answer 3

Well crud. Im Jewish so I guess I'm not allowed to answer your question. Oh well! I'm gonna answer it anyway! hehehee!

If I were single, I'd date you after being friends first, AND if we both felt like dating would be the logical next step in our relationship.

If it was working out that way, I mean. If we knew there was something deeper there. We'd know.

I never, ever date people I'm not friends with first.

Oh, and you'd have to be Jewish or I wouldn't date you at all, because I don't date outside my own religion. But in that case I WOULD still be friends with you anyway, but I wouldn't allow it to go further than friends.

EDIT: Oh yeah, and if I were your age or somewhere around there. I'm about 20 years older than you though.

Answer 4

I'm not single, but if I was I would want more information before answering your question.

The most important thing would be are you a Christian who is committed to serving the Lord for the rest of your life.

Then I would want to know (if you are a christian that is) what you believe in regard to what I believe since there are some docrinal differences between denominations that could cause a division in our relationship.

There are other things but that is a sampling.

Answer 5

Are you a Christian?
Are your values the same as mine?
Do we have anything at all in common?

I'm very sorry to say that I cannot answer your question. There are too many unknowns.

I would venture to sit down, have a coffee and chat...

The question's true feeling really comes from the perspective of: "As a Christian, would you/I reach out to a person in need of love & acceptance? Would you/I "unconditionally" show love?" (or something like that.)

(Am I right?)

God bless.

Answer 6

In all honesty, my policy was, I will not date someone I cannot marry. I cannot marry someone who is not a Christian.

For my entire adult life I think I went on three dates. And it wasn't because I'm ugly. I just knew that marriage was an important decision and one that should not be taken lightly. I was just dumb enough to believe that God would drop my perfect mate out of the sky with a big red ribbon, so I did not date and just kept waiting on God.

I was 29 when I met my husband. He was 5'6 with an extra hundred pounds on him and covered in tattoos. Not what I thought I was looking for, but he was mine and he still is.

I don't really care what someone looks like physically as long is their heart is where it is supposed to be: Firmly in the grip of God's hand. As a Christian, that is the most attractive and appealing attribute of all.

Answer 7

No. Because you are male.

But I know a Christian female who was born missing one arm and part of a hand that I have always loved. I would seriously consider marrying her if she wanted me to. Does that count?

I hope tht some lucky woman says that she wants to meet you. Just don't treat her like dirt, okay?

Answer 8

John, I'm a guy, so let's start with we weren't meant for each other, but I know of a really smart pretty quadraplegic who got married in her wheelchair and is a champion for women.

Her name is Joni Erickson Tada, and she is a prolific author. She is outspoken about her faith. You can find her here: http://www.joniandfriends.org/resources.php

My personal answer to your question is that there is someone for everyone. God made you, and he loves you.

Answer 9

Wow if your a guy then I may run in the other direction... If you where a girl I would date you if I thought you where a reasonably nice girl. "It is what is on the inside that counts."
Your soul not the face or body.

Answer 10

I would most likely go on at least one date, to see what you were like. Depending on if our personalities clicked I would go for a second! Buff guys aren't everything.