I have always been fat ever since i was young. I have always been the tallest, and biggest out of them all, even though they are shorter than me. I always wanted to be small like them and short like them.It seem like they fit into anything, and I don't. I guess this is the reason why I always get hurt from people words.
2007-07-22 13:06:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
That's to bad. Maybe try focusing on the good things about yourself instead of comparing yourself to others.
2007-07-22 13:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by lindseygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone desires to "fit in" and to "be admired".
You are no different. When you feel less than adequate, there are little barbs that poke at your emotions.
Every person out there has "triggers", little phrases, or looks or words that dig those barbs in swinging in strong feelings of inadequacy.
So, in some form you are dealing with what we all deal with.
Now, here I am, a few years older, and the longtime recipient of "short jokes". Let me tell you why I prefer to not wear make-up. I have had a hard time liking myself for who I am. At church I learned of God - my creator - and his love for the people he created. It seemed reasonable to me, that if God could love a person like me, as I am -- then I need to learn to love myself, too. Today I recognize myself (no beauty, but OK) to be glad to be the person I am. After all,
I'm tall enough that both my feet reach the ground when I stand! (Humor comes with truth) I sense that I need to be happy in the who of who I am and what I look like.
2007-07-22 20:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something about it! Change your eating habits SLOWLY. Start eating fruits instead of candy,chips etc and try to get any exercise at least 20 min a day and gradually move up! You are in control!!! Not other people! Good luck...(I know because I was always made fun of too. Not anymore.)
2007-07-22 20:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to look at yourself like the media wants you to. If YOU want to change, then YOU make the choice. Don't let others make you feel bad about yourself.
2007-07-22 20:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think we all tend to think the grass is always greener on the other side. i personally would kill to be short. unfortunately my parents are both freakishly tall. i used to walk with a really bad hunch to try to seem smaller, but that would just call more attention to myself. point is, we all eventually have to learn to be happy with how we are, because trust me, all those tiny girls have their own insecurities.
2007-07-22 20:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by rockie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what are you willing to do about it? Complain or get fit? Get fit, it'll prolong your life.
2007-07-22 20:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by Pontius 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok
2007-07-22 20:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋