well today i got to talk to my real mom on the phone for the first time!!and im soooooooooooooo happy!but the weekend comein up ik going to meet my real mom and dad and im soooooo happy!but the promblem is idk what to say to her when i meet her!
2007-07-22 13:04:40 · 7 answers · asked by kea234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello mom and dad,
I am so happy to finally meet you, as you hug them, and then say you are looking great! offer them a drink and snack and you will make a conversation with them and relax and enjoy them. Good Luck!
2007-07-22 15:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Green eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "real mom and dad", I assume that you were adopted. The one question that you do NOT ask is "why was I left for adoption"? That will probably be answered in due time as long as you let them bring up the subject. If they are willing/interested in seeing you after all the years, they will bring it up in due time - their due time. Do not embarrass them. They feel bad enough as is. Tell them how happy you are to see them. If it is within your culture, bring them a bouquet of flowers. When you present the flowers, hug and kiss them. Bring pictures of you growing up and show them but do it without making comparisons between them and those who raised you. Do not run down the couple who raised you or the one who gave birth to you. Your birth parents gave life to a child who is above that. Above everything else, listen to what they have to say with an open mind.
2007-07-22 13:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by MICHAEL R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. My sister is adopted and we were nervous for her when she meet her real mom. Everything turned out good, she will always have us and now she has a new relationship with her mom and other siblings. I hope you have a great experience, my love and prayers are with you.
2007-07-22 13:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say whatever is in your heart and on your mind. You have the right to know what happened in the past....it's the only way it will ease your mind. Good luck!
2007-07-22 13:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Angela R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it.Even though you've been apart for some time i'm sure the conversation will flow naturally once you're together
2007-07-22 13:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them how are they and how happy you are to see them.
2007-07-22 15:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY HOW YOU FEEL AND PLAY IT BY EAR DO WHAT COMES NATURAL HAVE FUN BE HAPPY CONGRATS TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-22 13:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋