I did something wrong.....very wrong. I went thru my GFs phone and found out that she is one messed up person, and lies about almost everything. I thnk she is still seeing her ex among other guys. Do I confront her, what do I do?
2007-07-22 13:00:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she lied before, she will probably lie again...relationship are about trust and honesty..... no matter how messed up that person is.
run away while you can, what more do you need? a confirmation?
2007-07-22 13:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by mr b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have gone through her phone and I don't think you can tell if someone is messed up by whom they call.
I still call an old girlfriend from highschool, way way back, becuase we are friends. But I do not sleep with her anymore or have a desire to.
Sometimes we expect people to erase their lives for us and that is not fair.
I just don't see how checking her phone is right or tells you anything.
2007-07-22 20:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by rumbler_12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is lying about most things and is seeing her ex, I would suggest bailing out as fast as you can. A person with a history of cheating will continue to do so, even after any commitment ceremony (wedding). Leave while you still have an intact bank account and your sanity.
2007-07-22 20:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by MICHAEL R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, to put you on a good note and open the door to honesty, apologize for looking through her phone! Then, ask her about it! It could be a misunderstanding. If it happens again, or you just can't trust her, then break up with her! It's not a good idea to be in a relationship where you can't trust one another!
2007-07-22 20:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by kadeyp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
definitely confront her. if you mean anything at all to her she'll dump those other guys and stick with you, if you catch her lying again i'd move on, her loss.
tell her you didn't mean to find anything she had said to others but you were just simply looking through her phone and didn't expect to find anything. be completely honest with her, or complaining about HER lying would be pointless if you're doing the same to her face.
i have a friend who does that. and i know it...but it's just who she is and i get around it. if i ever catch her lying to me, i don't know what i'll do...
hope this helped, good luck!
2007-07-22 20:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you probably should confront her
and leave her once a liar always a liar
shhe will just lie to you and tell you what you want
to hear, so be careful!
there are a lot of other honest people out there!
2007-07-22 20:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by lil_japanese_gurl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay notting is wrong with that at all!!!ok maybe it bad but not really! but okay then i think you should really confront her! really you should because if willl help you relax and it will take alot of thing off yourmind! but i hope that you do confornt her it not your mistake it her and she make the choices! and it her fault not your! okay!
2007-07-22 20:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by chick41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, u shouldnt have looked through her stuff, but bring it up casually in a conversation, if shes still lying then u should dump her
2007-07-22 20:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsey Loo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dumb that *****
anyone who causes pain and make u suffer
is not worth it. find out whats really going on first though before you make a desicion
2007-07-22 20:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
confront her! that's not right..
2007-07-22 20:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋