When I was young yes I did as I grew older I discover it was lust at first sight not love. Lust, Love and Infatuation all have a different meaning but for some reason when you physically experience them they all feel the same. When you have truly lived life you will realize what real love is and what lust and infatuation are......
2007-07-22 07:51:55
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answered by Tru 2
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Yes but it is a very bad idea. I remember reading about couples who had love at first sight and when they got to know him it was a big mistake. You have to be attractived to an indivual but you also have to be able to stand them personally.
Most first impressions are wrong.
Remember some decisions in our life are forever. Like having a baby or marriage. Be sure that is the right person.
Someone said know them one summer and one winter.
In other words at least a year before making the biggest decision of your life.
If a man chooses a filthy house keeper he spends the rest of his life in a dirty house. What if she is a shop a holic and no amount of money he earns will be enough.
What if he is lazy and won't work? A real pig that it takes two people cleaning constantly to clean up after?
All he wants to do is drink beer in his under wear and watch football games? You will see that on the sofa the rest of your life.
2007-07-22 08:01:29
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answered by Ruth 6
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WOndering if love at first sight is possible is just as complicated or as easy as asking do you believe true love is possible, it it chemical or emotional, or just something we'll never understand... I like to think that i know what i feel when i feel love so thus i must believe in love so i might as well believe in love at first sight for the same reason.
2007-07-22 07:05:51
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answered by savior04 1
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At first sight, I doubt it unless the two have been conversing by whatever means (email, IMs, phone). If this is the case then yes, it is possible that there is a beginings to love.
If it is an absolute first sight, lust may be present but i doubt that it is love.
2007-07-22 15:28:48
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answered by scotishbob 5
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I like to believe that...I think it could happen, a lot of people say it is lust at first sight that can turn into love
2007-07-22 07:00:26
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answered by prettykitty0829 3
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No, it can be lust at first sight, but not love. You have to get to know someone to love them.
2007-07-22 07:02:05
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answered by ? 3
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jennyann, my parents knew of a couple long ago! they went on 1 date only then married the next day, the marriage lasted over 55 years! and i remember them to be so loving ! so my answer is Yes, its very rare but Yes
2007-07-22 07:02:07
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answered by alangj91761 4
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no..people who say that "It was love at first sight" were just attracted to tat person..cuz ya got 2 get 2 know someone first..ya can't just love a total stranger just cuz hez hot!!? lol
2007-07-22 07:06:13
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answered by Anonymous
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only if love can be seen in people's appearance.
being immediately attracted to someone only leads to getting to know them and giving them a chance. So it's more likely that good looking people will be noticed and people will approach them.
2007-07-22 07:00:49
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answered by prasino_4 2
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I suppose you could be attracted to someone and then it turn to love, but no you couldn't really love someone without knowing them. Only, love the image you have of them.
2007-07-22 07:01:52
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answered by aj's girl 4
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