i went out with this guy 2 times for a good amount of time. we havent talked over summer and when the first day of school came he saw how much i changed [in a really good way] and he wants me back. i love him so much i can tell he really does too because hes not like a jerk hes for real. so he told me he likes me and flirts calls me beautiful and i find out hes doing this to another girl! calling her the same names and w/e should i be mad?????? PLEASE help! :[
thanks!!
2007-07-22 06:42:18 · 39 answers · asked by Angiee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-07-22 06:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this guy is a cad! He only really started pursuing you after these changes, which I'm guessing are physical, and that also makes this guy shallow. If he really liked you for you he would have figured that out when you went out last time. From what it sounds like, he's just trying to hit it, and if you let him, you're going to get even more hurt.
Any guy who is pursuing two girls at the same time is a selfish jerk, and I'm sure you deserve better. If you feel you're better looking, go try to find a real man, a good one!
2007-07-22 06:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by bestaimee2151 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there, even though i am not an expert. but i would suggest going up to him and talking to him. ask him if he really wants to go out with you, why is he flirting with this other girl? if his answer is stupid or he doesn't even have an answer. then the conclusion is this guy is not for you. just tell him it is not going to work like that. after that just move on thinking he was a stupid jerk who was not for you. you'll find better guys. but if he apologizes and promises never to do this again. i think that guy deserves another chance. but in future if he ever does that again. break it off right there. he already got one chance to prove himself actually 3 if you count all. hope it helps. Good luck!
2007-07-22 06:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went out with this guy twice and now you're all in love with him? Give me a break. You haven't even talked over summer and yet you assume he loves you too.
No, you shouldn't be mad. He's doing what he wants and hanging with another girl. You need to get over it and move on. The dude is a player. Why be in love with someone like that? Common sense applies here.
2007-07-22 06:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say it is ok to have hurt feelings but there is a saying and it goes---- fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me--- meaning you already knew he was a jerk and that is going to change over night or probably ever- If a guys has girls that are willing to put up with his crap then they have no reason to change- he will just be a player- you need to not give him the time of day and not to make him jealous but to seriously never hook up with him again as he is using you because he knows that you will let him
2007-07-22 06:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should be. i say forget about him and he just wants something....don't give it to him...move on. Hes not good enough for you if hes out with some other girl. if he really loved you he wouldn't be saying all this stuff to another girl!! be mad...be very mad.
2007-07-22 06:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by >>Riot!<< 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, just ignore him from now on it seems like he wouldnt be worth much to have around. the best thing you can do is to stay away and dont get your hopes up. its like you really like him, but he is what he is. sometimes its hard to like people when you imagine them how you want them to be. if hes already with another girl, hes just out to have a "big name."
2007-07-22 06:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think he is just using you or maybe he don't know what he wants and is going between you and this other girl. Let the other girl know what he is doing. You don't need this kind of relationship. There are several nice guys out there.
2007-07-22 06:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be mad and you should forget about him. I'm sorry, but he sounds like a player to me. You don't need that crap. Good luck and I hope you find someone that's better.
2007-07-22 06:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad, be glad you found out about it before you got together. Move on and if you've changed in a good way, don't worry about him, others will notice you.
2007-07-22 06:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be annoyed but realize that you two are not a couple so he can see or talk to any other girl any way he wants. My suggestion to you is to find someone else. Find someone who is interested in seeing you exclusively.
2007-07-22 06:45:39 · answer #11 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋