I know most girls(99%-plus) prefer "bad boys" (translation=abusive guys) ... I was wondering for some aspiring guys out there which type of guys are in most demand nowadays ?? ( Verbal, physical or emotionaly abusive) or combination of these qualities.???
2007-07-22 02:03:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alas ---None of you is honest in your answers --
Who do you think Pamela Anderson, Farah Fawcett , J Lo ( J Ho actually ) were dating ?? ( all bad guys who used to beat them )
2007-07-22 02:11:28 · update #1
John P . Nice examples but I hate to break it to you that reality does not back your theories ...bad boys are actually abusive guys ... most girls do want some abuse in their lives ..
2007-07-22 02:45:24 · update #2
As bad as it sounds, your question made me laugh because its so true. Lots of my guys friends say the same exact thing. I mean seriously when your out in public, you see lots of men treating their ladies like total trash. However there are some good guys, but they are few and far between.
Me personally I like dorky guys. No bad boys for me, been there done that...
2007-07-22 02:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kayla born 8/18/09 <3 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Lol,
is this a trick question??????????
There are many women who are not interested in "bad boys." Some women wouldn't even consider dating a bad boy. Most men also do not start off relationships being abusive, or the women would be in a better predictment to end the relationship. Men usually start being abusive after the woman has fallen in love; thus, making it harder for her to leave the relationship. While I will admit that I'm turned on the tougher man and not nerds, he is not abusive to me mentally or physically.
I know that it may seem like most women want these types of men, above all, women want men who are themselves. Tell your "aspiring guys" to be themselves and when the time is right, they will find true love. Otherwise, they will only be setting themselves up for heartbreak once a woman finds out that they are only pretending.
2007-07-22 02:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is totally false. Girls and women are not attracted to abusive guys. However, in a few cases, it is possible the guys women are attractive to are also abusive. However, the attraction is physical and in no way because the guys are abusive.
Bad guys are not abusive guys. Bad guys are hott. Bad guys are very good looking, athletic, and sexy. They are guys that women will drop their panties for. A girl will fall IN LOVE with a hott bad guy; however, after a fling, the bad guy will dump the girl and move one to the next pretty girl that drops her panties.
The reason they are called bad guys is because, after a bad guy gets into a girl's panties, which is very easy for the good looking bad guy to do, he dumps the girl and the girl gets very upset over being dumped. She will then claim she wants a nice guy. However, what she really wants is a hott guy that will not dump her. She doesn't really want a nice guy because nice guys are not hott and after getting dumped by a hott guy the girl will still pass on all the nice guys and drop her panties for the next hott guy.
It is only after several years of go nowhere relationships with a dozen or more hott guys that the girl decides to settle down with a not so good looking nice guy.
2007-07-22 02:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,everything you just named sucks to me,but some women
just crave attention of any kind.Any woman who wants a verbally,physically,or emotionally abusive boyfriend [or bad boy] has a serious mental problems!Most of the women who want bad boys end up in the Lifetime movies,getting murdered.
By the way,i totally agree with the "J-Ho" nickname,thats what i call her too.
2007-07-22 02:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Luck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies,, correct me if I am wrong but when you say "bad boys" you don't mean rapists, murderers, thieves,, liars, well you got that part. Bad boys, "the good bad boys" are those with great confidence, are not afraid to take risks, are kind and yet fair and firm. So change your definition about what you think when you hear "bad boys" when it comes to what women want... I think I got it now.
2007-07-22 02:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by jorge e 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...to disappoint u..!!
girls are not Physco...!!
don't tell us u really believe such thing as girls love to get abuse by guys..!! that's really make me wonders...
Mmmmm....??? how high is your IQ..?
what if u get verbally...physically....and emotionally abuse by girls.....i really wonder.... Are u happy with those type of abusive girls?
girls get abusive guys not because they like them...
its because they get tricked into believing they are with good and caring guys...because mostly this type of guys are great pretenders.
2007-07-22 02:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by nightowls 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the geeks and older men (about 20 years older).
I'm far too aggressive and sensitive to want to be around a abusive guy. It would give me a mind f**k.
2007-07-22 02:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Acyla 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you got this statistic..I guess I am the 1% that isn't into abusive guys.
I am very independent and prefer to be in control. So the guys I tend to date...for one aren't ABUSIVE in any way, and they also mellow me out.
2007-07-22 02:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by jessicar218 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women with low self esteem prefer bad boys because that is all they think they deserve. Also when the relationship doesn't work out it is obviously all the bad boy's fault and she gets to play out all that innocent victim drama for her friends.
2007-07-22 02:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I do not believe anyone wants to be abused.
I myself prefer guys with Harley Davidsons and 4X4 trucks.
2007-07-22 02:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by ikareoke2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋