i've left my bf and lost a friend kuz i like a guy named edgar and he just said that he don't even wanna be friendzZ and now i can't stop crying i love him i can't help it but if he would just let me be his friend then i mite feel a little bit better i just want him 2 be happy and i just wanna atleast be able 2 hang out with him =( this suxz
2007-07-21 23:27:58 · 11 answers · asked by Evil Lady Lover ! ! ! ! ! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh well, you brought this on yourself. you probably lost a good guy when you left the boyfriend for this edgar person.
2007-07-21 23:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you like someone doesn't automatically make them like you back. Just a fact of life. Edgar is not worth your tears. Don't give him the satisfaction of letting him know he hurt you. Some guys get off on that power trip. Big egos and all.
What about this bf you left? Do you think he still likes you? How do you feel about him? Maybe you could light that fire again.
If not, look around for someone else that interests you. Tell him you are taking a survey, of all the guys in study hall, and he has the bluest eyes--or whatever you can think of. Then ask him questions about himself. Guys love to talk about themselves. Become a good listener. Ask his advice about something he is good at. Like could he teach you how to bowl? Skate? Bike? Hike? Computer skills? Games? Anything? The point is to spend time with him. Make him feel important and flattered that you think he is so talented and special.
2007-07-29 21:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women try prozac. Maybe an alternative would be to consider how you might use better judgmet establishing, developing and maintaining relationships rather than simply moving onto the next guy you like and expecting your ex-boyfriend to remain good chums with you.
2007-07-21 23:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got what you did to others... but everyone get's a second chance to reduce the effects of mistakes made earlier.
The thing is, forget edgar and move on. and remember, next man will always be better.
2007-07-29 21:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by san_brj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age it was what is considered "puppy love" (not to devalue the relationship.) Learn from the experience and move on with life. There are plenty of years, and boyfriends, out there to enjoy.
2007-07-22 01:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Natural Medicine Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have fun...who needs Edgar to be your friend...the more you want him, the less he will think of you...don't make yourself sound desperate...move on and learn something out of this lesson.
2007-07-29 19:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no magic formula...but remember it's HIS LOSS...and then keep your eyes open, girl. Someone new (better) is right around the corner.
2007-07-28 14:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quiet trying so hard, let him come to you if he is interested in the mean time enjoy yourself by being single you might find someone totally different
2007-07-29 16:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the old saying goes there are plenty of fish in the see
don't think it is the end of the world.
2007-07-21 23:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U NEED TO BE STRONG AND MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE.U WILL GET SOME 1BETTER THAN HIM U WILL C.JUST MEDS
2007-07-22 09:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by SLIMZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋