Its bad and i know it,but i just cant stop?I mean i jerk off at least once every week,thats just too much for me.Any ideas or thoughts on how i can stop totally?Btw im a freethinker but thinking of getting a religion
2007-07-21 22:06:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well..i used to be real innocent up till i was 11,till then i have always been well liked by my peers and such.After i was influenced,i started to become a loner,i went straight home after school(for porn),i was always thinking about sex and discussed it frequently with other people like me.Well one day,lets just say i stopped for about a month,and that month was probably the best of my life.I started to have a social life again,i was popular again and things were great.Now that i think back,i felt that i was really immature back then and by stopping masterbation,i make myself a better person
2007-07-21 22:17:07 · update #1
why?
2007-07-21 22:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once a week? ...now that's not very often at all. If you like it once a week then try it twice a week or whenever the issue raises it's head. If you don't use it you lose it.
Your peers are doing it too so just stop thinking you are so special and unique in this, everyone does it and those who say they don't are either incapable of it through infirmity or they are liars.
When I was about 13-14yrs I had a few jack mags hidden under my bedroom desk, my brother was poking about in my room and found them and told my Mom and when I got home that night I found them all placed neatly on top of my bed, nobody said anything about it but boy was I shamed by it...sure I got rid of the magazines but I didn't stop jacking off.
2007-07-21 22:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by CHEESUS GROYST 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen those pictures of Tammy Bakker doing that CNN interview a few days ago before she died? Every time you think about jerking off, just look at that picture. It will quickly take away the urge. But really, there's nothing wrong with masturbating, just don't get caught doing it.
2007-07-21 22:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once every week isn't bad. Why is masturbation wrong? Does it keep you from seeking out someone special? Try reading "Kosher Sex" if you really want to learn to stop.
2007-07-21 22:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one has ever said that masturbating was a bad thing.
Get rid of a guilty trip. Who cares if you enjoy doing it. You are not hurting anyone.
2. You claimed to be a free thinker, I guess you have no knowledge of what FREE THINKER MEANS, free thinkers are against DOGMA and religion.
There is not such a thing as free thinker and religious at the same time.
OPEN YOUR EYES. Study scientific books, historical facts.
Religion is mythology.
2007-07-21 22:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is nice that you want to stop somethig that you think is bad. Even I had bad things in my life that needed to be stopped, but I couldn't do on my own. But God helped me to overcome it and now I am free. God is really there. Now after I left my sin and seeked God and after almost 2 years, I can feel His presence very much when I pray.
Please read here how my life was changed,
http://www.protectinghands.com/ladder_to_heaven.htm
2007-07-22 00:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Brinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbation? Most people do it. Most people do it more than once a week. And religion has nothing to do with it.
Just don't do it in public and scare the horses and you will be fine!
2007-07-21 22:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by geniepiper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it bad? it is fun and most of us do it. I masturbate and really enjoy it.
Don't let it rule your life, you can still be popular etc and still beat off 3-4 times a week.
2007-07-21 22:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jason Bourne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT BE SILLY. Keep doing it. It turns the spirit world on. They need a bit of excitement too.
2007-07-21 22:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a chasity device
2007-07-22 00:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by independant_009 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on you age, 1 x a week isnt much.
why do you think it is too much ?
2007-07-21 22:10:29 · answer #11 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋