How do i end it all ?

Question

I'm going through a time in my life where nothing seems to be going right . Every initiative I take ends up in failure. Ive come to the conclusion that god hates me and I 've decided to end it all . There s only so much a guy can handle , but Im scared shitless about suicide. Is there any other painless way or do I just fade away without anyone noticing. Please help me here friends.

Answer 1

You said it yourself ... "I'm going through a time in my life where nothing seems to be going right." It seems that you even know that youll get through it. Ive been through this myself and I know how you feel. The solution is to change what you can change and accept some things that are beyond your power. This takes time so its not gonna happen over a few days. If youre in high school try getting a part time job at a retail store and work hard. You will feel that people need you and depend on you after you learn how to do everything and youll make friends with co-workers. Thats one thing that helped me overcome my shyness and let people see who I really am. Whatever you dont like about yourself, just change it. For example Ive been a little chubby all my life so I decided to do something I hate ... run. After a while I got used to it and now I actually enjoy it and look forward to doing it. I look better and feel better and little things like that really help. So whatever you want to change about yourself, go ahead and do it and youll start seeing a brighter light to life. If ending it is really what you want to do, go ahead-- its your life. However in my opinion life has its ups and downs and you gotta fight through the hard times and eventually things will look better for you. Plus I have no idea what happens after I die, so Im scared of the consequences. Theres so much I want to do in life and ending it is cowardly and itll affect so many lives around you. Good luck with whatever you do.

Answer 2

First off, the one really bad thing about suicide is that you can't commit it and then change your mind after its done. Second, speaking from experience, no matter what you're going through right now, it will eventually pass; it's easy to believe that God hates you, but its much harder to believe that God is having you go through something unpleasant for the sole purpose to get you to grow into a mature, wise person.
I once dreamed about being completely alone in a place of total darkness. (Imagine being stuck in the vacuum of space without any stars.) I had no sense of where I was; no idea which way was up or down; there was nothing I could use to get some sense of bearings, or even another soul to connect with. And worst of all there was NO way to get out. It was what I think hell would be like.
My point in telling you this is to show that no matter how bad things seem to be, it could be so much worse. You might have some really hard issues to deal with right now, but in the midst of your trials there are things to be thankful for as well.
At the moment, death may seem to be the least painfull of your choices; but by allowing yourself to go through the pain of whatever your facing will only make you a stronger and wiser person. I will keep you in my prayers.

Answer 3

Don't forget that there is no such thing as normal life for anybody. We all struggle in one way or another. In my case, I suffer maybe much much more than you can ever imagine. But we have bad days and good days. We need to stay on our feet for the sake of our loved ones. This way of thinking usually helps me: " next month or next year this problem that I am dealing with now, would be a history". Don't lose your strength. Take a long shower and try to have some sleep. Think about your loved ones. You still can do it tomorrow, but if you harm yourself tonight, you will never be able to reverse it.
If nothing can help call 911.

Answer 4

There really has to be some other solution to your problems than what you are thinking. No matter how bad you might think it is, come on man think about the alternatives. Nobody gets things right all the time, that doesn't mean they are suppose to give up. And if you have any family at all, have you thought about what this will put them through? There are free groups you can join to talk about things and it stays right there. Try talking to somebody,anybody,just talk!!! Killing yourself isn't the answer to ANY question.

Answer 5

You've said yourself that you are "going through a time..." which in itself suggests that there is an end to this time you're going through. Things have to change eventually. You just have to be brave enough to stick it out until then. I'm a paramedic and have seen thousands of people not dying by choice who would give all they have for just a little more time. So it makes me angry to see people that have that time and just throw it away.

Answer 6

hullo
it seems that you are running a vicious circle of thinking, which is common in depression, the best way is to have a sessions in cognitive-behavioral therapy.
one note ;god have nothing to do with it.

Dr solo

Answer 7

listen baby
down the ages all saints/philosophjers have said that the god resides within u and outside u.....................both are only one..........and it is true.! I can vouch for it.
You just need to discover where your god is.........and he is all around u.................not only that he works for u on a 24x7 basis and i can prove it to u.....
Firstly stop your fight with existence and nature..................just flow with it.....................ur problem is u want to fight and u rnot game..................u need not resist existence........jjust be and flow .........ull be fine..............and now!!!!!!!!!!!
the pain u feel is imagined.................
just see around you the dance of nature..............the btrees,the birds, the winds and so on.........
no 2 trees compete with who is better n taller...............
no rose tries to be a lilly..........( if it does .....it will end up being neither arose nor a lilly)
all of them are in harmony happy n singing the music of celebration...............................
Only the human mind wants tobe different from what u are...........but why.............and compete withthe other...again why?
man wants to conquer nature like the everest and so on...what for! can u conquer nature....................do u know where nature startrs or stop....................\do u know that u are so infinitely small in the scheme of things that u dont really count............yet u fight.............live in misery and cry.........
when u can all along be happy
n yes meditate u will be fine

Answer 8

You are not alone to face this problem.This life is precious and don't try to waste it, Have a patience and the time will be changed.

Answer 9

There is an insult unto death from Friends and family. I think you are not there. Try to learn the rules for greeting socially . Learn what your aura is doing to the group to make them so mad at you.

Answer 10

serve ur parents, be the best son in the world n GOD shall turn things for u.