Should I give it a try,or jus be friends with her?

Question

I just got out of a 5 yr. relationship 4 months ago,that still kinda burns the heart.,But I met another girl that I think it could go somewhere with,and basically make me a happy guy again,the catch is that she has a kid.Im only 22 shes 23 I dont know If Im ready for that...should I keep looking for the right one or take a chance?

Answer 1

take the chance

Answer 2

I'd get to know her as a friend and find out what the kid's like. I can't recommend jumping into being a step-dad right away but trying it out might not be all that bad. I would move VERY slow and remain friends for as long as possible because if the kid's a spoiled brat, you might end up resenting him/her and that's not fair for the child. I've dated a few girls with children, it's not easy -- you rarely get time together without the kid -- you're stuck playing the dad (kind of) -- bla bla bla
Don't get me wrong, I was never ready for that -- I'm 30 and I still don't think I'm ready to raise someone elses child. You just never know until you try it ------ I wouldn't say no to someone just because she had a kid --- That's my real answer ---- Sorry my answer is so confusing with several different answers ------ Good Luck

Answer 3

A relationship with a mother is a lot more complicated than dating a woman with no children. I'd suggest that, as you are quite young as well as still grieving your lost relationship, you would do better to try to avoid getting into anything serious for a few more months. Casual social outings and group activities would be good. You need to make sure that you don't get into a situation where you develop a relationship with a child who would grieve your loss if you break up with his mother. Kids are vulnerable to that kind of thing.

Answer 4

so what if she has a kid are little things like that gonna stop u from getting the one that makes u happy. well if u think so they shouldn't. maybeh being a father figure with this kid could beh good for to heal the burning heart u have right now. don't let little thing get in the way of ur happyness go for it.

Answer 5

I dont hav theory in love which blooms by making use of way of online. a guy could be judged with the help of making use of seeing his eyes & speaking wid him. Even frauds can prepare themselves because of fact the gr8 character with the aid of chatting. Dat too 5 days of affection :P dazzling!!! truthfully he needs to play a interest on U coz many adult adult males hav that as their interest in recent times as I too had an journey. So be careful & I possibly want u to even eliminate from ur touch record.

Answer 6

Since you just got out of one r/ship you may be just looking to fill the hole in your heart. Start out by being friends.

Answer 7

go with her if u think she's the right 1 dont just turn back just becuz she has a child take a risk but really whats the risk

Answer 8

A kid, do you like this kid?
And does this kid like you?
If yes to both, you have a chance.

Going out with her is probably equal to going out(?) with both her and her kid. So try to be friendly to the kid. That's probably really important to her.

And be serious about it.

Answer 9

IF YOU REALLY LIKE HER, AND IF YOU KNOW THAT SHE'S WORTH YOUR LOVING FOR...

YOU WOULD'NT MIND THAT SHE HAS A KID.

AND BESIDES, I'TS NOT LIKE YOU'RE GONNA GET MARRIED TO THIS GIRL!

WHAT I MEAN IS...........

IT WON'T HURT TILL YOU GIVE IT A TRY.

Answer 10

if your not ready for a kid to be there you shouldn't get involved.